You can be in a relationship and still have your individuality. Some people I have talked to have spoken about losing themselves in their relationship, which I hear is good sometimes, but just never forget who u are.

As long as you lose yourself in a good way and find out who you are AGAIN it doesn't need to be a negative thing to be with someone. Love should have you lose yourself and bring out new and positive versions of yourself.

You don't have to lose your individuality if you are in love and happy with a safe person.