Today we focus on the prickly question of how you should change jobs — what to say to your current employer and when you should say it.

There are far too many bosses who can be extremely vindictive to employees who become  job seekers.  They view it as a loyalty issue — by accepting another position, even for a nice promotion you have betrayed them.  These “Its all about me” bosses can react inappropriately, sometimes even illegally, so looking for another job can be a dicey proposition.