Old-Fashioned Friends

Your partner should never know this about you | Episode 13


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This week, we sit down with special guest Kate for one of those conversations people have in private but rarely out loud β€” should you disclose your sexual history to your partner?We kick things off with a real story from a salon that quickly went from casual gossip to full-blown drama, and nobody came out innocent. From there, we dig into the double standards, the insecurities, and the unspoken power dynamics that shape how we talk (or don't talk) about our pasts in relationships.Is honesty always the right move? Or are some truths better left unspoken? And why is it that a man's past is called "experience" while a woman's is called baggage?We also get into when disclosure actually matters β€” think sexual health, trauma, and dealbreakers β€” versus when it's just curiosity dressed up as honesty.πŸŽ™οΈ Topics we cover:

  • The salon story that started it all
  • Body count, double standards & misogyny
  • Does marriage entitle your partner to your past?
  • When honesty protects vs. when it just gives people ammunition
  • Shame, regret & weaponized truth
...more
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