Lasting change is 100% selfish, so you need to accept that your partner will not change for you. You can't reform them. They will not make lasting changes just because you desire it. So before you think about jumping into marriage and enacting some reform program on your unsuspecting boyfriend or girlfriend, watch this video.

What changes do you want your partner to make? Can you live with their imperfections and still be happy? Leave me a comment.

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