He tells you you’re being "insecure." He says he’s just "looking." But the algorithm doesn’t make mistakes, it is actively training him to find you boring.

In the old days, if your partner stared at someone for far too long in a coffee shop, you’d call it out.

So why do we let them do it for two hours a night under the covers?

In this episode of Every Shade, Nina stops the cap on digital infidelity. We’re breaking down:

- how the AI is programmed to tempt,

- how "liking" became the new "eyeing,"

- and why it might be time to have an uncomfortable conversation.

Is the algorithm designed to tempt you? Or are we just paranoid?

Full Video on YT - https://youtu.be/7cib240Wl5w

It’s a rant. I am not a licensed therapist. Enjoy with discretion.

Until next time, it’s Every Shade.

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