Passage way, the reason is to motivate, the reason we live, the reason we know how to move forward is through those unique passages, and we at times regret but if those passages did not exist, how would we have been able to learn. SO wrong choices allow us to be comfortable once we see that there is another option.
I hear, I understand, not because I have experience your experiences but because I understand that through experiences, we all face the same challenges of recover and self forgiveness. We are not suppose t understand most things in part to we have not experience what most have experience, therefore I do not put the expectation on others to understand my way of travel and decision making just as I understand I am not suppose to understand yours. Allow this to be the moment where you relax your mind, your energy and your thoughts system so that the passage your travel through may be the option that is best suited for you. Relax and Let Go!!
Understanding that I may never understand is where I find my peace. B.cherry