Why do people act the way they do?

In this episode, we break down the hidden code behind human behavior, language, values, and decision-making, so you can predict behavior before it happens.

Most people believe their decisions are conscious.

They’re not.

Human behavior is driven by invisible systems most people never learn to see. In this conversation, we unpack the values-based patterns that shape identity, language, motivation, and behavior in business, relationships, leadership, and life.

Once you understand this framework, you stop reacting to people and start recognizing predictable patterns of behavior.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

• How values levels shape behavior without awareness
• Why people stay stuck even when they want change
• How language programs identity and outcomes
• Why environment quietly determines success
• The real reason transformation happens
• Why freedom without structure collapses
• How to communicate across different value systems

In this episode, Brandon and Deb Yager break down how your language patterns, unconscious reactions, and internal dialogue shape the reality you live in. If you have been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, triggered, or disconnected from yourself, this episode will help you understand why. This conversation will guide you through the mechanics of language, identity, emotional patterns, values levels, shadow triggers, responsibility, inner technology, and what real transformation looks like. You will learn how to speak consciously, create alignment, and shift the way you show up in your life, relationships, and purpose. This episode is recorded in the United States by Yager Training Co. with listeners worldwide in the US, Canada, Australia, Singapore, the Philippines, the UK, and global communities who want to upgrade their mindset, communication, and emotional intelligence.

🎧 WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

• How your daily language patterns shape your mindset and behavior
• Why unconscious language creates emotional triggers
• How to shift out of reactive thinking
• What slave language is and why it keeps you stuck
• How to use language to create a conscious, abundant reality
• The real technology inside you (mind, body, words) Why your triggers are mirrors of your inner work
• How to take back your power through radical responsibility
• Why transformation cannot happen without transmutation
• How to break old patterns and create aligned behavior
• The values level model and how it affects your purpose
• Why success feels empty without connection to source

In this episode of the Your True Alchemy Podcast, we break down one of the most common mind traps shaping modern life: forced choice thinking. You’ve seen it everywhere. Right vs Left. Us vs Them. A vs B. The problem is not that people disagree. The problem is the illusion that there are only two options, and that you must pick a side to be “right.”

We unpack how this false binary shows up in society, online discourse, relationships, coaching, and decision-making, and why it can feel hypnotic. When your mind locks into only two directions, it becomes harder to think clearly, stay compassionate, and see the options that actually create freedom.

This conversation is for anyone who wants more clarity, more resilience, and a more grounded way of navigating conflict without getting pulled into extremes.

What you’ll learn:

- What a forced choice dichotomy is and why it is a logical fallacy

- How “either-or” thinking limits your life, relationships, and leadership

- Why increasing choice changes everything (including how you handle conflict)

- A practical framework for asking: “What is the highest intention here?”

- How to stop living in “us vs them” and return to balance

If this resonates, share it with someone who feels stuck between two options. There’s usually a third path.

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What started as a simple love for ponds became a global movement.

🌎 In this episode, Brandon and Deb sit down with The Pond Guy —a visionary entrepreneur who transformed his backyard passion into an international business that brings people closer to nature, one pond at a time. You’ll discover how curiosity, grit, and purpose turned a childhood fascination into a multi-million-dollar brand known for innovation, integrity, and heart.

💡 Goal: To inspire purpose-driven entrepreneurs to trust their instincts and build empires rooted in passion and authenticity.

💖 Emotion: You’ll feel reignited by how one person’s connection to nature became a lifelong mission—and how you, too, can turn what you love into what lasts.

🚀 Outcome: Walk away with actionable insights to build a brand that reflects your values, your vision, and the deeper impact you’re here to create.

There was a time when neither of them had it figured out.

Brandon felt lost and disconnected from his purpose. Deborah was stuck in patterns that helped her cope, but not heal. Addiction, self-sabotage, and unhealthy relationships were part of their story.

What you see today did not happen overnight.

In this episode, Brandon and Deborah share the real work behind their transformation.

The moments of self-awareness. The discipline it took to stop numbing. The honesty that changed everything.

By the end of this episode, you will:

• Understand why people sabotage themselves before someone else can hurt them

• Learn why real transformation takes time, not quick fixes

• See how honesty and language shape identity and direction

If this story resonates and you’re wondering where to begin, Brandon and Deborah want to gift you a free NLP Made Simple eBook to help you become more aware of how you talk to your subconscious and the patterns you repeat daily.

What happens when curiosity meets conflict? Brandon & Deb explore how our words shape not just opinions — but entire realities. This episode dives deep into the psychology of language, emotional projection, and the cost of losing critical thinking in a world of noise.

💬 Curiosity, Projection & Free Speech: How to Think for Yourself in a Noisy World Most people don’t think — they react. They mistake opinions for facts, and emotion for truth. In this powerful conversation, Brandon and Deb break down how language, projection, and suppressed curiosity influence everything from online debates to our personal relationships.

From the Charlie Kirk controversy to ancient rhetorical roots, this episode challenges you to ask better questions — and listen without fear. It’s not about choosing sides. It’s about reclaiming your ability to think critically, speak consciously, and create harmony through awareness.

In this episode of the Your True Alchemy Podcast, we dive into conscious language and how the words you speak shape your reality, relationships, and results. Using principles from NLP and ancient wisdom, we explore why language is not just descriptive, it is creative.

You will learn how unconscious phrases keep patterns in place, how tone and body language influence connection, and how to shift from fear-based language into intentional, empowered communication. We also unpack why misunderstandings happen, how responsibility plays a role in communication, and how awareness protects you from manipulation.

If you want to speak with clarity, lead with confidence, and create real change starting from the inside out, this episode is for you.

✨ Welcome to the debut of Your True Alchemy! ✨ In this first episode, Deb & Brandon Yager share their raw, real stories of struggle, growth, and the hidden loops that keep so many of us stuck in self-sabotage, overwork, and destructive patterns. You’ll discover how ancient wisdom and modern mastery can help you:

✅ Recognize the unconscious “loops” shaping your life

✅ Break free from cycles of addiction, fear, and sabotage

✅ Rewire your mind and body for freedom and flow

✅ Step into your purpose with clarity and confidence

This isn’t just theory — it’s lived experience, powerful tools, and practical wisdom you can apply today. 🔔 Subscribe for more episodes where we merge ancient teachings with real-world transformation.

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