What happens when your identity is built on achievement, productivity, and performance, and one day, it’s not enough?

In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley pulls back the curtain on the lie so many women have been sold: that their value lives in how much they can do, achieve, or prove. With raw honesty, she shares her own journey of tying self-worth to success and the breakthrough that changed everything.

Tune in to hear Ashley unpack:

• The hidden conditioning that teaches women to equate productivity with value
• Why success doesn’t heal self-worth (it only distracts you from noticing the gap)
• The signs you’ve tied your identity to your output
• Simple practices to reclaim your worth outside of work
• Soul-level reminders for the high achiever who’s tired of running on empty

This isn’t about rejecting ambition. It’s about remembering that you are the value, even when you do nothing at all. If you’ve ever struggled to rest without guilt or measured yourself by metrics and milestones, this episode is your permission slip to reclaim your worth and anchor back into who you are.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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