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You’re Not Broken—The Relationship Pattern That Is Meant to Heal You and Wake You Up


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Have you ever found yourself obsessively drawn to someone you knew wasn’t right for you—and then judged yourself for it?

This episode of The Femme Cast is about to blow the lid off what attraction really means.

The truth is: attraction isn't random. It’s coded into your spiritual DNA as a divine mechanism for healing and evolution. Those magnetic pulls? They're not mistakes—they're soul compasses pointing you toward the lessons you most need to grow.

Let’s be real. 

That emotionally unavailable ex?
That situationship you knew was a dead end but couldn’t quit?
That person who waved every red flag in the book and still had you hooked?

They were never random. They were assignments.

In this vulnerable and eye-opening conversation, I'll share my raw personal journey of being irresistibly attracted to all the wrong people—until the day it all changed. From feeling butterflies for toxic partners to now experiencing the “ick” response when faced with the same dynamics, I unpack what happens when you finally learn the lesson, integrate it, and shift your energetic signature.

No more attracting what wounds you.
No more settling out of fear of being alone.

Just wholeness, boundaries, and magnetism that only calls in what’s aligned with your highest good.

Get ready for an empowering reminder that healing changes your taste—and that’s a good thing.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

  • Why attraction is your soul’s GPS—and how to read it
  • The real reason you're drawn to red flags (and how to stop)
  • How healing shifts your desires from toxic patterns to healthy love
  • What it really means when someone suddenly gives you the “ick”
  • The importance of curiosity, not shame, in examining your attraction patterns
  • Why boundaries aren’t walls—they’re magnets for emotionally available partners
  • How to tell when you’re choosing from fear vs. choosing from wholeness
  • Why the willingness to be alone is the ultimate power move in love

Let’s normalize healing, conscious attraction, and waiting for the love that chooses you back—every single time.

Let's do this. 

Ready to step into your Magnetic Love Era? If so, The Magnetic Love Story Manifestation Method is now open for enrollment.
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