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If you’re an overachiever who thinks things through, explains well, and still gets stuck, this episode is for you.
Indecision isn’t a lack of intelligence or confidence. It’s what happens when explaining becomes your nervous system’s safety strategy.
In this episode, we break down:
The three channels decisions run through: looks like, sounds like, feels like
Why overachievers overuse the “sounds like” channel
How proving and over-explaining keep your nervous system activated
Two simple questions that restore clarity and decisiveness when you’re frozen
You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in the explanation loop.
And once you learn how to switch channels, movement returns.
PS: Get my weekly newsletter with uncommon leadership insights.
By Holly LewisIf you’re an overachiever who thinks things through, explains well, and still gets stuck, this episode is for you.
Indecision isn’t a lack of intelligence or confidence. It’s what happens when explaining becomes your nervous system’s safety strategy.
In this episode, we break down:
The three channels decisions run through: looks like, sounds like, feels like
Why overachievers overuse the “sounds like” channel
How proving and over-explaining keep your nervous system activated
Two simple questions that restore clarity and decisiveness when you’re frozen
You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in the explanation loop.
And once you learn how to switch channels, movement returns.
PS: Get my weekly newsletter with uncommon leadership insights.