It sounds crazy, but it is one of the most normal thoughts one can have in marriage, "Who is this person I married?" Sometimes our spouse seems completely different than the person we married years ago. What do we do? Is this an excuse to just give up? Is change that bad? It it inevitable? Listen in as the guys discuss what to do when our spouse changes. Spoiler alter - ALL SPOUSES CHANGE! :)

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Baby It's Cold Outside Controversy

Jeff Huxford

Barbara Streisand and Neil Diamond - You Don't Bring Me Flowers

 

-----

"You didn't marry a lifestyle, you married a person."

 

"So much of our disappointment with our spouse's changes is our unmet expectations."

 

"Change is inevitable; when we're doing it [marriage] right AND when we're doing it wrong, change happens."

 

"You gotta change the change."

 

-----

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com