Thank you for being patient with us as we took a long break to pursue our education and career goals..

I considered removing this post.  All endings have new beginnings.  We left podcasting for many reasons.  One of those is

Episode 70 – When couples get into the lifestyle there is a rush of excitement and curiosity about what is to come.  As time progresses, some couples feel different levels of interest in the lifestyle and sometimes one spouse will decide they are no longer interested in playing.  In this episode, Danielle and I discuss a listener question that asks; What if my wife no longer wants to play.  

Small Talk

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Swingers and Christmas Gifts

Do you?

What would make a good gift?

Dirty Santa

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Tonights show

Another listener question

The LS is not always fun

Sometimes couples find themselves in situations where one wants to play and the other is done.

Segment 1:  Amazon

Listener Questions:  My wife and I have LS friends we play with that have been obviously struggling for a while now. She stays in the LS because she likes to party and her friends are in the LS but she doesn’t want to play anymore.  He still wants to play and does but he leaves her out during any play time.  He acts like she isn’t even there.  Should we continue to play with this couple?  What would you tell them?

The the disclaimer that this is for entertainment purposes only.  Wow, tough question.

Talk about what you would tell the writer of the question first

Segment 2: MeUndies

Discuss couples that are differening ideas about being in the LS

They need lots of conversation

If they are not okay with hubby playing they need to get out.

If they are ok then there are options

But, true feelings need to be out in the open and if one says no more, no more

Final comments – Swingers Date Club

Events

Bliss Cruise

March 20 – 25, 2017 * Celebrity Summit (With US!)

Naughty In Nawlins

Average Swinger/Hidden Swing Pub Crawl

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Episode 69 – There are many different styles of play in the lifestyle.  Most couples prefer to play same room.  But every now and then you’ll meet couples that prefer separate room or even hall passes, date, or many other sexy scenarios.  In this episode Jennifer and I discuss separate room and hall passes.  As an aside, Jennifer might sound out of it in this episode.. Big bad straight man made her record while she had bronchitis.. I’ve got a schedule to keep.  Enjoy.

Small Talk

Shout Out

Bliss Cruise

The Hidden Swing is cruising on the March 2017 Bliss Cruise to Coz and Progresso.  Hit us up if you are on that cruise or know of any FB groups regarding the cruise.

NiN

The Hidden Swing will be traveling en masse, hopefully, to New Orleans in July 2017 to celebrate the fourth and party with sexy swingers.

Average Swingers / Hidden Swing Pub Crawl in OKC April 1st

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Segment 1: – Separate Play – Amazon.com

Most couples prefer playing together

See your partner

More erotic

Advantages of separate play

More intimacy

Less pressure

Not a race

Disadvantages

Jealousy

Intimacy

Feeling insecure

Segment 2: – Hall Passes – Swingers Date Club

Long distance partners

Couples with kids

Casual dating

Final comments – MeUndies

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Episode 68 – The Hidden Swing has always been about sexy stories and offering advice on managing the ups and downs of the swinging lifestyle.  Its for that reason that one of the greatest thrills for us is answering listener questions.  In this episode Danielle and I talk about how expensive the lifestyle can be, and answer the question “Why does everyone drink so much?”

BONUS Easter Egg Conversation at the end of this episode – Danielle gets the giggles

Small Talk

Opening

Listener Questions

This episode based of a listener email

Is the LS for the rich

Why does everyone drink so damn much

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Segment 1:  Is the LS only for the rich

Who is the LS

Go to a mall and look around

Its the same type of subsection you see at LS clubs.. Minus kids and the super elderly

Most are 30s and 40s with average jobs

Its the same as going to dinner with friends

Younger Adults

Have children

Maybe not an established career

My young swinger story

LS Sites

Get free time on Kasidie or SDC through The Hidden Swing

Memberships are less than 20 a month

Meet up with couples to go to dinner

Host your own party

Take a float trip

Organize your own events

Meet and Greets

Segment 2: Why does everyone drink so much

Its social lube

No one wants to fuck someone that’s shit faced

Blondes

You can decide that you only want to play with blondes

But you’ve shortened your playing field

You can decide that you will only play with people that don’t drink at all

But you’ve shortened your playing field

No one wants to be the slobbery drunk

Danielle falls off the PC train..

Segment 3: Drama

We briefly talk about how alcohol messes up relationships.

If you’re drunk, you’re not communicating

Its okay to argue, but don’t do it in front of your LS friends.

Play the “What If” game

Final comments –

Events

Naughty in Nawlins – July 4-9 2017

Blogger Couple – Lifestyle Virgin – Great blog about the lifestyle.. Check them out.

Bliss Cruise – March 20 – 25 2017 – Come party with us

April no Fools – The Hidden Swing/Average Swingers OKC Pub Crawl – April 1 2017

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Shout Out

Couplicious

TY for introducing us to your fun game.  If you havent looked into this game it is actually one of the FUN ice breaker games out there.. We’ll be reviewing it in this episode.

Bliss Cruise

The Hidden Swing is cruising on the March 2017 Bliss Cruise to Coz and Progresso.  Hit us up if you are on that cruise or know of any FB groups regarding the cruise.

NiN

The Hidden Swing will be traveling en masse to New Orleans in July 2017 to celebrate the fourth and party with sexy swingers.

Average Swingers / Hidden Swing Pub Crawl in OKC April 1st

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Segment 1: –  Amazon.com

Thinking outside your box

Being real about what you want

Settling

Segment 2: – Swingers Date Club

Is that couple TOO hot?

Feeling nervous, doubtful

Chance encounter leads to more conversation

Segment 3: – MeUndies

The hook up

Solid connections

Total confidence

The Story

Final comments

Thank you for the support during our break.

People love that we are real in our discussions.

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Small Talk

Opening

Taking breaks

Life Happens

We produce on our own time, when we have something to say

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Closing the Deal

How the LS Changes a Person

Halloween

Segment 1:  Closing the Deal

Everyone is nervous

If your conversation last more than 5 mins, you’re probably both interested

It doesn’t all have to lead to sex

Just ask

Segment 2: How the LS Changes You

Energizes your life

Makes you more confident

Makes you think about being more fit

Makes you more of a drunk

Final comments – Halloween

Halloween

Costume

Plans

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Episode 65 – A couple times a month, the good people over at Topless Travel host a twitter chat that allows podcasters, bloggers, and sexy sexy swingers to answer questions about the LS by using the hashtag #TTChat. In this episode, Jennifer and I explore our answers to their questions and share that with you.

* Topless Travel

* A couple times a month, Topless Travel hosts #TTChat to discuss topics in the lifestyle. How do you see this TTChat?.

* Bliss Cruise

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Segment 1: – Amazon.com

Q1: Have you ever had any issues regarding consent with your partner or another couple?

Q2: Did you ever experience a complete communication breakdown between your partner or another couple?

Q3: Were you ever in a situation where you someone found your online swinger profiles? How did you handle it?

Q4: What are your thoughts on swinger parties with drugs and alcohol involved? Do you try avoiding them?

Segment 2: – MeUndies

Q5: Have you ever been in a bad situation involving STDs at swinger parties? How would you handle it?

Q6: How many times have you had issues where someone refused to put on a condom or a condom breaks during intercourse?

Q7: Have you ever been in any extreme situations where you considered stepping away from the lifestyle?

Q8: What are some things that can done to reverse the bad reputation of swinging in the vanilla world?

Final comments – Swingers Date Club

Thank you for the support during our break.

People love that we are real in our discussions.

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Small Talk

Shout Out

The Average Swingers

We talk about our first ever meet and greet with was hosted by The Average Swingers.

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Segment 1: –  Amazon.com

Setting the stage

Couples Cruise

Newbie Couples

Cliques

We talked to a new couple about cliques.

Recognition.

Butts and Boobs

Segment 2: – MeUndies

We hit a Swirl Bar called Sherlocks in OKC

Damn good band –The Brown Note

Segment 3: – SDC Swingers Date Club

Our first soft swap experience

Final comments

That Couple Next Door

Sunday Porn Day

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