Our children are often seen as the casualties of divorce. They're also one of the greater reasons why the majority of couples who are currently in relationship will continue to exist in a dynamic that leads to greater levels of unfulfillment. Our children are so evolved and so empathic, that they are in some ways already aware of the relationship dynamics that you and your spouse are only now discovering. Honesty and transparency is the necessary antidote to help them move into a place of understanding and awareness around how life is going to look now in your household. Meet them with transparency and openness.