Stacy is a single mother by choice who had a grueling eight-year journey to motherhood. She shares her struggles with infertility and the disappointments regarding the adoption and surrogacy processes. She researched every avenue available to her and suffered many miscarriages. In the end, the surrogacy process and adoption process paid off and she became the proud mother of two children. One through surrogacy and one through adoption.

Stacy explores her emotions during this time. She also discusses the stigmas as well as the hidden angels she found during her journey. There are pearls of wisdom in this episode for every mother and every woman wanting to be a mother.

Some highlights of today’s conversation:

Resources

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Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

Motherhood Reimagined: When Becoming a Mother Doesn’t Go As Planned: A Memoir by Sarah Kowalski

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Quotes

"If you know in your heart of hearts that you want to be a parent, don't let grass grow, I feel like your heart goes first but your mind follows. If your heart knows you are meant to be there, your mind will get on board." -- Stacy

"Infertility is such a dark tunnel and it's really really easy to get sucked up into that dark tunnel." --Stacy

"I had been jilted by a surrogate, and I had been bailed out on by birth parents, and I had had many miscarriages, so you can understand why I didn't believe any of this was going to come to fruition. I thought I was going to have neither baby and I wound up with both." -- Stacy

"At some point I had the question pop up into my head, do you want to be a  biological mother or do you want to be a mother? And the answer to that was a resounding I want to be a mother, so I started pursuing adoption." -- Stacy