Common narrative tells us that men struggle with monogamy while women naturally thrive in long-term exclusivity. But what if we’ve been looking at it all wrong? In this episode, we break down The Atlantic’s article, “The Bored ,” and challenge stereotypes about gender and desire. We explore why many women-not just men-find monogamy difficult, the role of novelty in rekindling passion and how couples can shift their approach to keep intimacy alive.