You're doing a great job.  You are doing so much better than you think you are doing.  Just because you didn't get all (or any) of the things on your to-do list done doesn't mean you are a bad parent.  Often times the most growth happens in those hard moments and realizing that you are still a wonderful mom despite all the things that didn't get done that day.  Slow down and celebrate your small victories.

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