Have you ever found yourself rambling, stuck, or reacting in conversations — even when you thought you knew what you wanted to say?

In this episode, I unpack the powerful (and often overlooked) skill of thinking in advance. It’s not just a productivity hack — it’s a soul-level shift that helps you separate your thoughts from your emotions, speak with clarity, and stop spiraling in decision loops.

I share:

* How this skill shows up in everyday moments

* Why it’s hard for people from emotionally chaotic families to do it

* What this has to do with clutter, planning, and Nonviolent Communication

* How “thinking ahead” reconnects you to your values and your voice

* What might be at play if you can’t seem to do this

If you're exhausted by confusing conversations, draining collaborations, or the swirl of your own thoughts — this episode’s for you.

✨ If your thoughts and emotions feel too tangled to think clearly, my Untangling Work™ can help. Learn how to separate what's yours and move through life with clarity.

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