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033-Chris Coursey- The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages | Joy, Neuroscience & Relationships


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In this conversation, me and Chris Coursey explore the significance of joy in relationships, particularly in marriages. We discuss the four habits that can foster joy-filled marriages, emphasizing the importance of play, listening for emotions, appreciation, and nurturing a rhythm of connection. The discussion also delves into the neuroscience behind joy and how it can transform relationships, providing practical exercises for couples to implement in their daily lives.

Chris Coursey's Resources:

https://4habits.org/

https://thrivetoday.org/


Related episodes:

Check out our talk on raising joy-filled kids in episode #10


Takeaways

Joy is essential for effective communication in relationships.

The joy gap is the length of time between shared moments of joy.

Listening for emotions helps create deeper connections.

Joyful attachment motivates positive interactions in marriage.

Neuroscience shows that joy physically changes the brain.

Small, consistent practices can lead to significant changes in relationships.

Play is a vital component of a joyful marriage.

Appreciation can spark joy and strengthen bonds.

Nurturing a rhythm of connection and rest is crucial for relationships.

There is always hope for growth and change, regardless of circumstances.


Sound bites

"We are wired for joy."

"Joy is the thing our brain prefers."

"Joy is like kindling a fire."


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Joy-Filled Marriages

03:17 The Importance of Joy in Relationships

11:02 Joyful Attachment vs. Fear as a Motivator

15:55 Recognizing Fear and Cultivating Joy

18:04 The Neuroscience of Joy

22:04 Building Joy Through Connection

24:26 The Four Habits for Joyful Relationships

29:29 Nurturing a Rhythm of Connection

35:15 Overcoming Disconnection in Relationships

42:08 Discovering Your God-Given Gifts

42:45 Equipping for Service and Glory


Keywords

joy, relationships, marriage, emotional health, parenting, joy habits, communication, attachment, neuroscience, personal growth

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Only Love Today-Testimonies and Resources for Christian MomsBy Megan Estes-Expert Encourager & Author of "Loving the Mom God Created You to Be"