WOW - what a LONG title this week! I choose the topic this week after reading about our lessons that we go through. For some of us, the lessons are much harder than for others however, and what we take away from these so called lessons can be profound - at least the potential is there.   I have spoken about our True Self and the fact that we will experience what is needed to help us to grow in consciousness in other podcasts. I will be honest with you, this title brings up some fear within ME when I think about what some people have gone through - and for some, are still going through. It brings up questions within me...like: How can sexual abuse be the best thing ever? How can any physical abuse be the BEST thing? This topic alone has the potential to bring up some very deep emotions within all of us and maybe that is the reason why it was chosen.   When I think back to what I have been through, I NOW know that EVERY single thing happens for a reason. I actually HAD to go through what I did...to BE the person that I am today. Without going through the abuse - both mental and physical, I would be a totally different person. I was in a serious car accident when I was 17 years old. When I think of it now, IF I would have listened to the message at the time, I wouldn't have had to experience the physical abuse and the drugs & alcohol. THAT is the thing...if we don't get the message... the experiences will keep getting stronger & stronger until we either listen - a finally GET the message, or we bury ourselves even deeper.   I witness some people digging themselves deeper & deeper and simply just have to send them energetic LOVE energy, hoping that they will wake up to their calling. The saying "The more you fight something, the stronger it gets" describes this the best. No matter what has happened, would you be able to look at it and ask yourself...what have I learned from this experience? The important part, is to look for the positive aspects of the situation... which can be difficult sometimes, but with any negative aspects, you will find the opposite - which is the positive side of it.   When you are able to focus on the positive aspect of the situation, you will be able to LET GO of the negative thoughts about it. Know that everything happens for reasons that are beyond our understandings - there is an entire energetic force working within us and around us...all of which is to be moving us towards Christ Consciousness. I don't know about you, but don't you think that it is about time we ALL wake up? Wake up to the power of the person we truly are?   In the Quantum Field, there is no room for low vibration emotions and feelings, so it is very important to find the positive aspect of what is holding you back from what you are here to do. Think of the worst thing that has ever happened to you and make a list of ALL the positive things that came out of it. I know that this may be the most difficult thing you have ever had to face and for some of you, you may think that things are better off buried away...BUT burying all the negative isn't serving you. It is actually holding you back from your future. Allow it to come to the surface - FEEL it and LET IT GO.   Last week, I talked about the Sedona Method for clearing...do that! #1 - ALLOW and welcome the emotion to come to your awareness #2 - ASK yourself if you are willing to LET IT GO. #3 - ASK yourself WHEN?   Once you are willing to let it go, it will be gone! Energy moves and that negative energy will move out of your awareness. Making a list of positive aspects that came from the experience will help replace the energy with high vibration thoughts. Once you are filled with high vibration thoughts, you will be able to BE in the Quantum Field and remain there! Not only THAT... you will not have anything holding you back! You will now be able to 'go with the flow' and your entire reality will change!   This has been a very heavy topic this week. I just hope that you are motivated to actually DO the process of replacing the negative thoughts with positive ones. Just remember to breath as you are going through this and also remember that you have an entire team that is willing and able to help you get through this. Simply ask that ALL Beings of Light help you to change the vibration of the experience to one of high frequency!   Next week, we will talk more about what else could be holding you back!   Join my mailing list at www.telfercoaching.com and receive a FREE ebook.   Interested in experiencing a Quantum Alignment Session? Skype, Zoom or FaceTime sessions are available. Contact [email protected] to book your reality changing appointment.