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035-Kris Reece- How to Set Godly Boundaries in Toxic Relationships, Especially with a Narcissist


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Have you ever wondered if showing grace means letting someone keep hurting you? In this episode, I sit down with Kris Reece, author of Breaking the Narcissist’s Grip, to talk about narcissism, manipulation, and what healthy boundaries actually look like for Christians.

We unpack some hard but freeing truths—like how love bombing and gaslighting can sneak into even “Christian” relationships, and why grace doesn’t mean enabling toxic behavior. Kris shares powerful wisdom on self-reflection, healing, and what it really takes for someone to change.

This episode is a reminder that boundaries aren’t unloving—they’re an act of love. And that healing starts when we invite God to show us who we are in Him and how to live in truth, not confusion.


Listen in to learn:

  • What narcissism can look like in Christian settings

  • How to tell the difference between grace and enabling

  • Why boundaries are an act of love, not rejection

  • How manipulation often begins with charm and ends in control

  • What true healing and accountability look like in toxic relationships

Key Quote:“Grace says, ‘I love you enough to hold you accountable.’ Enabling says, ‘I’m afraid to upset you, so I’ll keep the peace even if it costs me mine.’” — Kris Reece

Connect with Kris Reece:

https://krisreece.com/

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Chapters

00:00 Defining Narcissism and Its Traits

02:31 Manipulation and Its Forms

05:17 The Role of Grace and Boundaries

07:55 Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

10:40 The Impact of Toxic Relationships

13:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

19:51 Understanding Boundaries in Relationships

21:17 Navigating Toxic Relationships

23:39 The Complexity of Manipulation

25:18 Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior

27:00 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

30:04 Rebuilding After Toxic Relationships

34:28 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships

38:10 Hope for Change in Narcissists

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Only Love Today-Testimonies and Resources for Christian MomsBy Megan Estes-Expert Encourager & Author of "Loving the Mom God Created You to Be"