This is part 2 of our 3 part mini-series on hidden abuse, narcissism & gaslighting, part 1 is ep. #028: Did You just Gaslight Me?
*Content note: this episode discusses abusive relationships, discretion is advised.*
We go over:
Hidden abuse, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, treated with unfair ways of shame & hurt either physically, spiritually, financially and litigation abuse.
Why those who have experienced trauma are feeling fine/better than most during this pandemic.
We recap what a narcissist is from a healthy one to the dark triad
The nr:1 distinction you need to know between a healthy narcissist and a machiavellian one.
The sociopath next door, like in the Netflix series: ‘You’, and ‘Dirty John’
The dangers of leaving a narcissist
The differences between a male and female narcissist aka somatic, stepford wive traits and charm, power and control
What makes a narcissist?
Why ‘friends/colleagues/family’ align with the Narcissistic abuser out of fear, not out of genuine connection.
Why narcissists are prevalent in positions of power
Why won’t people leave their abusive partner?
Trauma bond aka Stockholm syndrome
The oxytocin , epinephrine and adrenaline connection that happens each time the abuser gains any trust
Why a secure person can become codependent in an abusive relationship
Why it's so hard to prove that type of abuse in court when trying to divorce from a hidden abuser / narcissist
You’ve built up the courage to leave, now what?
What are the sure signs at the beginning of dating that the person is toxic
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