Parenthoot with Neha

#04: Breaking Norms, Building Bonds, and a Village of Caregivers, ft. Bijayini Jena

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This episode features the extraordinary Bijayini Jena—a mother, leader, and advocate for gender equality. In this candid and heartfelt conversation, Bijayini reflects on her life’s journey, from navigating societal expectations to forging her unique path as a parent and professional. Her stories brim with lessons on courage, negotiation, and building a life rooted in values. This episode is a deep dive into how modern parenting intersects with resilience, gender dynamics, and personal growth, offering invaluable takeaways for listeners from all walks of life.

Key Highlights:

  • Creating a “Village” of Support: Bijayini shares how her colleagues, caretakers, and family came together to help her raise her son, creating an exemplary model of shared responsibility and empathy in the workplace. She emphasizes how this collective effort strengthened her commitment to both her family and her career.
  • Breaking the Chains of Guilt: She tackles the pervasive “mother’s guilt,” challenging societal norms that often burden women with an unrealistic sense of perfection. Her perspective empowers mothers to embrace their ambitions without compromising their love for their children.
  • Redefining Gender Roles: Bijayini’s daily “gender training” at home is a witty yet impactful commentary on dismantling patriarchal norms. Her emphasis on equality extends beyond her household to inspire others to rethink traditional dynamics.
  • Workplaces That Care: Through her experiences, Bijayini illustrates how supportive workplace policies—such as flexibility, childcare assistance, and empathetic management—can make a profound difference in a parent’s professional and personal life.
  • The Power of Self-Care and Joy: With anecdotes about celebrating birthdays, cooking meals, and embracing her hobbies, Bijayini reminds listeners that self-care is essential to being a fulfilled parent and individual.
  • Speaking Up for Change: Bijayini’s life exemplifies the power of raising your voice. From negotiating workplace flexibility to advocating for her child’s needs, her courage has paved the way for meaningful change.


    • Why You Should Listen

    This episode is a masterclass in modern parenting and leadership. It’s not just for parents—it’s for anyone striving to balance their responsibilities with their aspirations. Bijayini’s story offers actionable insights, emotional resonance, and a refreshing take on how to live authentically while challenging societal norms.

    • References & Recommendations
      • Gandhi’s Philosophy: Bijayini embodies Gandhi’s famous quote, “Be the change you wish to see in the world,” by living and practicing the values she advocates.
      • Harappa Leadership Program: This leadership initiative, which Bijayini participated in, emphasizes the importance of relationships in building effective leaders.
      • Sustainable Parenting Practices: Bijayini’s creative strategies for parenting on the go, including carrying her child’s kitchen while traveling, are inspiring examples of adaptability and care.


        • About the Guest

        Bijayini Jena is a trailblazer who has redefined motherhood, leadership, and gender equality in her personal and professional spheres. A former leader at Pradan, she is now an independent consultant. Through her advocacy and actions, Bijayini inspires parents and professionals to embrace challenges and live with purpose.

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