What Your Child Really Wants for Christmas (It’s Not What’s Under the Tree)

This week on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe is joined by Linda from The Thriving Home and The Connection Couple to explore what truly makes Christmas magical... connection. If you’ve ever felt torn between creating a picture-perfect holiday and actually being present with your kids, this episode will help you slow down, simplify, and reconnect.

Linda shares her and her husband Matt’s Connection First Parenting approach, a practical, research-backed framework built around four key pillars: connection, repair, responsibility, and developmental awareness. Together, they unpack how these ideas can transform the way families experience the festive season.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why connection is at the heart of all positive parenting, especially at Christmas.
• How to plan for connection (not perfection) with simple, stress-free ideas.
• The neuroscience behind why your child remembers moments, not gifts.
• How the Thriving Advent Calendar turns December into 24 days of meaningful family connection.
• Simple ways to slow down and make space for presence over pressure.
  
  

Whether you’re baking cookies, decorating the tree, or wrapping presents, this episode reminds you that your child’s most cherished memories come from how it felt to be with you.

Listen in, breathe out, and rediscover the joy of a slower, more connected Christmas.

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