I find this to be the hardest thing to do. First of all, being an observer and watching the events of your life is difficult and NOW to ask you to 'allow' it all to unfold??? The first time I heard about 'allowing' was in my Law of Attraction life coach course that I took. There is actually a 'law' called the "Law of Allowing" that I found interesting and challenging. The "Law of Allowing" was ALLOWING the people around you to BE who they were. On my journey, this has been difficult.   Take for example, I have a family member get diagnosed with cancer. My research in the past has been that the cure for cancer is there and you only need to do something different in your life. This is when I want to jump in and take over their lives...explaining what they need to do to heal. BUT the "Law of Allowing" states that I had to 'allow' them to make their own choices...even though I knew that if they did something totally different, they would likely heal from what was going on in their body. It is not easy to BE the observer and 'allow' their lives to unfold as it should.   This "Law of Allowing" is there so that everyone can simply make their own choices and experience their own lives. What I have to remember is that, they have things to learn on their journey just as I have learned on my journey. Now IF they were to ask for my help, THAT changes everything. THAT is when I can step in and give them my advice. At that point, I also need to remember that the final decision is theirs and to NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL when they decide to do something different then the advice that I just gave them. It is literally a life & death decision and IF they believe what the doctors tell them, it will make it harder for them to change the ENERGY of illness.   Remember, EVERYTHING is ENERGY and ENERGY can be CHANGED!!! When something is NOT in balance in your body it is usually a stuck emotion ~ which is energy that can be dissolved with the right tools ~ mind, body & spirit.   There is power behind ALLOWING your own life to unfold as well. It is actually the same law...the Law of Allowing. Whatever comes to you is coming to you for a reason....I like to think that my Higher Self is bringing to me something to experience ~ which means that I am strong enough to handle whatever it is. I have mentioned that our human experience is an illusion, so what if we were supposed to experience something to be able to move onto the next level? What if we were to look at life as a game and once we get past a certain level, we have all the points to move on?   Would it be easier for you to experience what you are going through if you knew this was all just a game? What I have found with others & myself, is that we want to force something to happen. It has been my experience that when something doesn't work out as planned, we are fighting the flow...going against the current. When something is supposed to work out, you will find that every single thing will fall into place easily. 'Everything happens for a reason' is my favourite saying and I use it quite frequently! I now wait for something to come to me and THAT is when I know that it was meant to be. Take for example a health show that I was considering going to. I almost filled out the form and decided against it ~ if I was supposed to go there, something would happen to make it a possibility. I got a call from the organizer asking if I would attend the show...she didn't have anyone that offered what I did and she really wanted me to attend her show. I took that as a sign and agreed to go.   There is obviously someone that will be going to that health show that needs something from me and the Universe is bringing us together. THAT is going with the flow!!! It is the "Law of Allowing" for both myself and whoever is 'supposed' to meet me. I could have said NO and missed the opportunity to grow from whatever I am to share or learn at this event.   This actually wasn't the easiest to explain so I hope that you understand this and will do what you can to ALLOW your life to unfold. The Light Language that I am about to do is to unlock the keys within your heart for this ALLOWANCE to take place. Take a couple of deep breaths and close your eyes...left hand on your heart and bring white light into your body ~ filling your entire body with light...exhale the white light into the space around you. Listen with your heart.   Light Language   I hope that you found this beneficial! Practice the "Law of Allowing" for yourself and others...allowing your life to unfold as it does. 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