In this special Valentine’s Day re-release, we’re bringing back the only couple we’ve ever interviewed together on Doing It All — Blair and Spencer Paysinger.

Blair is the co-founder of Post 21, a thoughtfully curated marketplace celebrating Black-owned businesses. Spencer is a former NFL player turned consulting producer and the real-life inspiration behind the hit TV show All American. Together, they are a dynamic, deeply intentional couple building careers, raising children, and protecting their marriage in the process.

In this episode, Blair and Spencer open up about what it really looks like to balance ambition and partnership — from navigating demanding careers and entrepreneurship to raising two young kids while staying connected as husband and wife.

We talk about:

• Building individual dreams while supporting each other’s growth

• Protecting your relationship in high-demand seasons

• Communication, ego, and recalibrating when life shifts

• Parenting as a team

• The logistics (and love) behind “doing it all”

If you’ve ever wondered how ambitious couples sustain joy while managing full plates, this conversation offers honesty, insight, and practical perspective.

And don’t forget to check out Spencer’s podcast, Higher Valleys, co-hosted with Jelani Jenkins, for more thoughtful conversations on growth, purpose, and navigating life’s peaks and valleys.

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