Maria N. Papacosta: “I was born in Greece and when I was six months old my dad got a job with a German company in Jordan. So, he moved our family there and we traveled with him between Greece, Germany, Jordan, and a little bit of Switzerland. It's hard for any kid to make friends and learn how to socialize in new environments, especially one that is extremely shy. That was me. I had to meet new kids as well as learn how to read and write in multiple languages. It was quite a struggle for me at the beginning. 

Up until I was fourteen years old, there were periods of time when we were separated from my dad. That was emotionally draining for all of us. The end result was a kid who was extremely shy and not very social.

Once I analyzed that as an adult, I completely transformed. 

My transformation seemed to define my purpose in life. Having a business that helps people to stand out and not be afraid to follow their dreams, has been wonderful. I really enjoy teaching my clients how to communicate with impact and influence. I’ve become a speaker who stands on stage, and in doing so, I have overcome my fear of standing out. 

While growing up, we start monitoring the different personalities around us. We start to wish we were like this person or that person. This type of thinking keeps us from discovering ourselves. 

I went into the speaking industry at a relatively young age. I had to collaborate with other speakers as an event organizer. Initially I would look at all the speakers and think, ‘Oh my God, they don't even appear to be afraid, they stand in the spotlight and communicate with huge audiences. I wish I could do that, and I know I can’t. Why?’ It was reflecting on the why that gave me the resources to transform myself into who I am today.”

Have a listen as I interview my special guest, Maria Papacosta. Find out how to let go and trust the process.