Divorce and Heartbreak can tear you down or build you up. The choice—and it really is a choice- is yours. Make your divorce a journey of self-discovery and transformation by adopting the mission to Divorce with Heart.

A divorce with heart is a divorce that cultivates peace and strengthens future relationships. Your future life and your children’s happiness depends on the choices you make and your mindset. Where you are now is colored by your thoughts and feelings about the past; where you are going will be colored by the present.

You have the power to create a colorful future and reset your relationship with your spouse and children. You are not just ending your marriage, you are building a foundation for the future. Don’t bring the problems of the marriage with you; change it, and become a warrior of peace.

Through acceptance, forgiveness, courage, and personal power, you can create a better life. You can rediscover your true self, and begin to create a life lived on purpose and in alignment with your heart.

Your children will be spared the aftermath of a nasty divorce and the proverbial “broken family,” and will have the opportunity to gain two independent, loving, and whole parents instead. Don't waste your time fighting; grow and create something better instead.