Download Episode If you haven't read the listener's story, click here In the first episode of A Males Perspective: Once a Side Chick, the guys provide us with a little bit of insight on the topic. [bctt tweet="Managing multiple women gets old" username="hope_in_her"] Key Takeaways:

• For Jay's sake, keep your story short and concise
• In the case of once a side chick, do you think that sometimes men just get caught up in the euphoria of meeting a new woman, that they can never seem to find the best time to share that they are already in a relationship?
• Do you believe in a situation like this, the writer simply didn't do her homework?
• Do women sometimes put themselves in a "side chick" situation when her idea of dating is different from the guy's?
• Communication is important, however, when a man is an upfront with you, accept that and resist the urge to turn it into something more
• Stop "going with the flow" Ask QUESTIONS!

[bctt tweet="There is still a great deal of grown men with teenage-like mentalities." username="hope_in_her"] Timeline of the show:

• :45 Hope reads a letter submitted by a MLM listener about side chicks
• 5:50 Meet the guys
• 6:14 The guys share their thoughts about side chicks
• 9:11 Do men glorify the idea of side chicks?
• 16:22 Denzel with the bottom line- Jay, rebuts with his bottom line
• 17:20 Why do some men choose to put women in "side chick" arrangements unknowingly?
• 24:00 Do men ever choose the other woman over their initial partners?
• 31:07 The guys share their "side chick" experiences and what kept them from choosing her to be in a long-term relationship

[bctt tweet="There is no side chick if there isn't a main chick. " username="hope_in_her"] Music: Method Man ft Mary J. Blige I'll Be There for You/You Are All I Need to Get By Instrumental http://www.hipstrumentals.com/2011/11/throwback-thursdays-method-man-all-i-need-instrumental/method-man-ft-mary-j-blige-ill-be-there-for-you-you-are-all-i-need-to-get-by-razor-sharp-instrumental/