In this generation, men have perverted the masculine identity God expects of them. The spiritual idea from which men (males) are made is wisdom. However, for the man to be truly wise, he must learn wisdom from God and practice that wisdom. Since the woman is wired to seek a man who does not have  mere knowledge but who rather makes a practice of wisdom (i.e., one who is resourceful), how can a man become this kind of man for the woman in marriage?

In a time where marriage is under attack, Pastor Jeffrey Walter is inspired by the Lord to restore sanity and hope in marriage by painting vividly what God intends for marriage to be. Throughout the month of February, by the series, “Love, Relationships, Marriage and Matters Arising”, he presents godly wisdom on what the Lord intends for marriage to be, as well as the prescribed methods by which it is to be engaged in. 

In this Special Meeting with Men, Pastor Jeffrey Walter sheds light on the key attributes that should characterise the man in marriage: wisdom, confidence, stability, foresight (vision) and resourcefulness. He further admonishes all men to strive to take care of their families (woman and children), knowing that the Lord  blesses and is with the man who sets out in pursuit of such endeavors.

The Lord is calling on all men to rise up! Indeed, no man should accept any excuse for not providing for their family. It's time for men to rise and be men once again!

Note: This message is an episode in the series of messages preached during the 2025 CAFAN February Special  Program on “Love, Relationships, Marriage and Matters Arising”. Kindly listen to all messages in the series for a complete appreciation.

Key Scripture: Ephesians 5:25-26 KJV 

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

Other Scripture: Proverbs 13:12 KJV