10 Things To Tell You

By Laura Tremaine

Laura Tremaine has 10 Things To Tell You. And YOU have 10 Things To Tell. This is a show about sharing your stuff and connecting to yourself and others in these outrageous times.

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May 29, 2025 Ep 270: 10 Things About Surviving Breast Cancer (with Bethany Winters) REPLAY
In 2016, at age 47, Bethany Winters was diagnosed with Grade 3 Stage IIB Invasive Ductal Carcinoma. What followed was a year of intensive treatment, including chemotherapy, a double mastectomy, and total hysterectomy.

In this episode, Bethany shares 10 Things about breast cancer survivorship, and how it's not ever really over even when declared "cancer-free."
This is a tender and important conversation.

This episode originally aired in 2021. As part of my effort to highlight the best of my past episodes, I wanted to replay this important conversation. 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. Please take care while listening.

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May 22, 2025 Ep 269: Tremaine Family Check-In
This episode is a conversation with my husband, Jeff, and our two teenagers Lucy and Finch. We're answering listener questions about family dynamics, living in LA, how the kids feel about their parents' careers, and what they picture for their futures.

Other Tremaine family episodes:

Ep 59: Marry the person you could quarantine with (the Tremaines wave hello from lockdown)

Ep 69: 22 Things Out Family Watched in Quarantine

BONUS: Tremaines Wave Hello From One Year of the Pandemic

Ep 138: 10 Questions To Ask Your Kids (with Lucy & Finch)

Ep 211: The Cell Phone Contract for Teens

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Mentioned in this episode:

Ep 255: Making R-Rated Art As A Mom (with Stacy Rukeyser)

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May 21, 2025 Stephen King Summer 2025!
The 5th annual STEPHEN KING SUMMER starts June 1! Join us as we deep dive on the world's greatest living story teller.

For Stephen King Summer 2025, we're reading:
THE SHINING (1977)
Under the Dome (2009)

And we're watching:
Christine (1983)
Episode 1 of The Outsider (2020)
Doctor Sleep (2019)

Stephen King Summer is a part of my Secret Stuff book club & membership community.

Browse Stephen King Summer MERCH

Not sure where to start with Stephen King? Jump right into Stephen King Summer OR listen to this episodes for book recommendations:

Ep 121: Stephen King Starter Kit

Ep 222: Stephen King Starter Kit Part II (What To Read And What To Skip)

Hope to see you over on Secret Stuff for the 5th annual STEPHEN KING SUMMER!

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May 15, 2025 Ep 268: Believe In Yourself So Much That You're Delusional (a ONE THING conversation with actress Fiona Rene)
I had no idea how much I needed this conversation with actor, producer, director, writer, and musician Fiona Rene. In just one hour she taught me the value of believing in yourself above all else, more than anyone else, almost to the point of delusion.

You might know Fiona Rene from her roles on Lincoln Lawyer, NCIS: Hawaii, I Know What You Did Last Summer, and her leading role in the #1 CBS show Tracker, but Fiona and I immediately connected over our Oklahoma roots. In this ONE THING conversation - where I ask my guests about the ONE THING they would tell you - we talk about self-confidence, the balance between "being" and "doing" and why believing in yourself above all else is the key to success.

Follow Fiona Rene on Instagram
Learn more about Grandma's House

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53min
May 08, 2025 Ep 267: Sharing As Part of Grief (REPLAY)

This episode with my friend Amy Ortloff originally aired in August 2021 with the title Teaching People To Grieve With Me. As part of my effort to highlight the best of my past episodes, I wanted to replay this conversation, which is one of the most important I've ever shared.

Content warning: Child loss and suicide

In 2017, Amy Ortloff lost her middle child Ryan to suicide. Ryan was just 17 years old. Less than a week after his death, Amy took to her personal Facebook page and starting sharing every single day. She began by sharing stories about Ryan, family memories and examples of the kind of kid he was. She didn't want her child to be forgotten.

As the weeks went by, deep in grief, Amy also started sharing her own experiences of this devastating time she was living through. She shared what she was learning in therapy, she set and shared her personal boundaries for interaction for those in her small town Oklahoma community.

Amy's sharing was raw and vulnerable. It was heartbreaking and powerful. I made a point to read her posts every day that first year after Ryan.
This episode is about the effects of that real-time sharing during the hardest time of her life, the positive and the negative. Amy was teaching us how to grieve with her, and it made an enormous impact on me long before I ever wrote a book about sharing stuff.

If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or text TALK to 741741.
Please share this episode with anyone who needs to hear it.

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1h 8min
May 01, 2025 Ep 266: Best Books Lately
My favorite topic, any time of year.

Join the SECRET STUFF BOOK CLUB where we're about to kick off the 5th annual STEPHEN KING SUMMER!

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Books I'm Looking Forward To Reading:

The Book Club for Troublesome Women by Marie Bostwick

Playworld: A Novel by Adam Ross

Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall

Run for the Hills by Kevin Wilson

Three Biographies:

Sister Sinner by Claire Hoffman

Mark Twain by Ron Chernow

Manson by Jeff Guinn

Best Books Lately:

There’s Always This Year by Hanif Abdurraqib

Americanah by Chimimanda Ngozi Adichie

Parable of the Sower by Octavia E. Butler

Long Island Compromise by Taffy Brodesser-Akner

The Tell by Amy Griffin

Victorian Psycho by Virginia Feito

Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy

ALSO MENTIONED:

Ep. 258: Best Books Lately with Liz Hein

NYTimes 100 Best Books of the 21st Century

Ep. 98: How To Start a Book Club

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1h 6min
April 24, 2025 Ep 265: How Have You Changed In The Last 10 Years?
This episode is the very core of what 10 Things To Tell You is about: reflection, growth, and great conversations.

And this conversation happens to be with one of my oldest friends and very favorite person to be on the microphone with: Meg Tietz. We're talking through the many ways we've changed in the last 10 years - since 2015 - in our home & family, career, and spiritually/emotionally. We have so much to say about our mid-30s, mid-2010s selves, and we're encouraging YOU to reflect on your own changes from the last decade.

Meg is a writer, speaker, voice over artist, and internet pioneer. I have been following in her footsteps since high school, and she is responsible for giving me my first shot at podcasting when she launched the Sorta Awesome show in 2015. Together we created and produced Smartest Person in the Room and now we're both creating regularly on Substack.

Read Meg's Substack Gemini Wrongs
Hire Meg for voice over work

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MENTIONED in this episode:

Meg's Deconversion Series on Substack (Part 1) and Part 2 and Part 3

Secret Stuff by Laura Tremaine

Ep 235: 4 Lessons After Publishing 2 Books

Ep 34: The Robbery

Ep 194: On Endings and Intuition

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1h 30min
April 22, 2025 BONUS: Are you underestimated?
Have you ever felt underestimated? Of course you have. Maybe YOU'VE underestimated yourself (which can somehow feel worse).

My friend and fellow podcaster and author Mary Marantz joins me to talk about her new book Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift To Quit Playing Small, Name The Fear, and Move Forward Anyway. I just love Mary and love what she has to say about taking our future into our own hands.

Click HERE to get Mary's preorder bonuses

Learn more about Mary Marantz

Follow Mary Marantz on Instagram

Buy Underestimated

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ALSO MENTIONED in this episode:

Dirt by Mary Marantz

Slow Growth Equals Strong Roots

Take the Achiever Quiz

Ep 213: Anxiety Always Makes Sense with Dr. Becky Kennedy

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April 17, 2025 Ep 264: Lessons Learned While Staying Put
You'll love this conversation if you've ever wrestled with the fact that achieving your dreams can look and feel different than you expected.

Annie B Jones is most well known for owning The Bookshelf bookstore and for her book-focused podcast From the Front Porch, but now she's on the other side of publishing industry as she releases her debut book of essays Ordinary Time: Lessons Learned While Staying Put.

In this conversation, Annie and I talk about how dreams don't always look the way you planned, like living near your hometown, owning a bookstore, even (especially?) writing a book! Our lives look so different from one another, but we found so many parallels.

Follow Annie B Jones on Instagram
Buy Ordinary Time: Lessons Learned While Staying Put

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April 10, 2025 Ep 263: Make Bold Choices (In Your Home And In Your Life)
I have been waiting for the right moment to feature this conversation with interior designer Michelle Fahmy, founder of Haus of Meeshie, about bringing bold color and unique style to your home and life. For the past two years, Meeshie has helped bring fresh life to our family's home in Los Angeles, bringing a whole new vibe to our living spaces.

Since I've long preached the power of our spaces on this show, I knew Meeshie (with her very bold style) would be the perfect person to talk us through this topic. But this conversation ended up being about way more than just paint and wallpaper. Meeshie's own career trajectory and leaps of faith make this an inspiring message for how to create the colorful life you want.

Follow Haus of Meeshie on Instagram
Follow @laura.tremaine on IG for peeks of my personal home

Check out the EXTRA THINGS conversation with Meeshie on Laura Tremaine's Secret Stuff

Episodes that pair well with this one:

Ep 236: Discovering what was always there
BONUS: 5 Rules To Create A House You Love

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1h 12min

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