Managing money as a couple doesn’t have to be a battle! In fact, it can be one of the most empowering & “mutually equitable” ways to grow together. This episode has insights on how to tackle tricky money conversations, turn financial stress into financial success, create money agreements & build a partnership where both of you feel valued & supported. Tune in, because leveling up your relationship starts with mastering your money game!

“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer and Dr. Will Van Derveer.

(00:00) - How financial systems can support or undermine a partnership

(02:59) - Addressing inequity & power dynamics in couples’ finances

(05:46) - How couples navigate combining finances & prenuptial agreements

(07:40) - Impact of income disparity on power dynamics in a relationship

(10:53) - Building a financial structure in relationships that supports long-term goals

(13:32) - The pitfalls of "tit-for-tat" financial systems vs joint finances

(16:16) - The importance of joint financial responsibility and co-investing in each other

(18:42) - Balancing different income levels and contributions in a partnership 

(19:27) - Shifting from "me" to "we" in financial decision-making

(21:07) - Addressing gaps in financial ambition between partners & finding alignment in financial goals

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Resources Mentioned: 

• Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 

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• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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