Sex With Emily

Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, and responsiveness. We’re talking about why starting slow matters, how to read the signals your partner is giving you, what it means to follow the “yes,” and why feedback like “don’t stop” or “softer” is an invitation—not a critique.

If you want oral sex to feel more connected, more pleasurable, and less like a performance, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro: what this episode covers
1:24 – The oral sex skill nobody teaches: no secret move, just paying attention
2:49 – Step one: start way slower than you think you need to
4:29 – Why arousal needs a runway
5:52 – Step two: read the body and be a detective
7:35 – Step three: follow the yes
9:29 – What to do when the yes goes away
10:32 – Step four: talk about it
11:22 – Why feedback is direction, not criticism
12:36 – The question to ask: "What was your favorite part?"
14:08 – The real skill: attunement and the full feedback loop

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Let's talk about why foreplay might be the most misunderstood thing in your sex life… because the way most couples think about it is exactly backwards. In this episode I'm breaking down why foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom and what to do when your partner goes straight to penetration every single time, when the sex has gone stale and neither of you knows how to say it, when one person won't reciprocate, and when a medical situation forces you to get creative in all the best ways.

If you have ever wished your partner understood what you actually need before sex even starts, this one is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT:

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

02:15 Foreplay Starts After the Last Orgasm

04:00 Why Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Changes Everything

06:00 The Psychology of Arousal and What Gets You There

07:30 Call 1: He Goes Straight to Penetration Every Time

10:00 How to Tell a Sensitive Partner What You Actually Need

13:00 The Compliment Sandwich and Why It Works

15:30 Call 2: Our Sex Has Gone Stale and I Don't Know How to Fix It

18:00 What to Do When Foreplay Has Disappeared From Your Relationship

21:00 Call 3: My Partner Won't Reciprocate Foreplay

24:00 How to Ask for What You Want Without Making It a Fight

27:00 Call 4: I Have Never Had an Orgasm

30:00 Why Most People Skip the Most Important Step

33:00 Your Homework: 30 Minutes Three Times a Week

35:00 Call 5: I Can't Have Sex for 6 Weeks After My Procedure

36:00 How to Stay Sexually Connected When Penetration Is Off the Table

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Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now.

In this episode, I’m talking about how to create the safety to give and receive direction during sex without anyone getting defensive, embarrassed, or shutting down. We’ll explore why learning basic anatomy is only the beginning, how bodies and desires change over time, and why staying curious is the real secret to being a great lover.

If you want more connected, responsive, and satisfying sex, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 - What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas
1:24 - The Vagina Is Not the Whole Thing — Here's Your Anatomy Refresher
3:00 - The Sex Ed We Got Was Basically Useless (And What Was Missing)
4:00 - Step 1: Learn the Map — What You're Actually Working With
5:30 - Why We've Been Treating Penetration Like the Main Event (And Why That's a Problem)
7:00 - What Actually Happens in Your Body When You Become Aroused
8:30 - Look at Your Vulva — Yes, With a Mirror. Here's Why It Matters
10:30 - We Know Our Skincare Routine Better Than Our Own Pleasure Anatomy
12:00 - Step 2: Stop Assuming — There Are No Universal Settings
13:30 - The "Starting Gun" Problem: Why Timing Is Everything
15:00 - Closing the Tabs: How to Actually Get Fully Present During Sex
16:30 - When Your Body Is Telling You Something Needs Attention — Don't Ignore It
17:30 - Step 3: Keep Talking — Stop Saving the Conversation for When It Goes Wrong
18:30 - The GPS Analogy for Sexual Communication
19:45 - What Great Lovers Actually Have in Common

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Let's talk about what actually gets in the way of connected, present, pleasurable sex… because it is almost never what you think it is. In this episode I'm taking live listener calls from people who are done settling for sex that feels disconnected, performative, or just plain stuck. A divorced mom of two who spends every sexual encounter watching herself from the outside instead of actually feeling anything. Someone navigating intimacy after leaving a religion that made sex feel like something to be ashamed of. A 19 year old who wants to take control in the bedroom but freezes every time. And more. If you have ever felt like you were in the room but not really there, this episode is going to give you a way back in.

ABOUT EMILY:Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Cold open: why we don't talk about sex like we talk about everything else
2:21 – Caller #1: breaking free from "spectatorship" during sex
8:33 – Caller #2: what to do when your partner won't go down on you
12:33 – Caller #3: postpartum libido and not enjoying receiving oral
17:07 – Caller #4: performance anxiety and disconnecting during sex
22:17 – Why focusing on your partner's pleasure can ease performance anxiety
25:22 – The trap of people-pleasing in relationships
27:07 – Caller #5: how to finally make the first move
29:11 – Caller #6: freezing up during a casual hookup
33:52 – Healing sexual shame with EMDR therapy
37:53 – Caller #7: learning to take control in the bedroom

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Great sex isn’t about finding one perfect moment and trying to recreate it forever. It’s about getting curious about what made that moment feel so good in the first place.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to talk with your partner about your best sexual memories without turning it into a complaint meeting. We’re exploring the questions that uncover what really turns each of you on: Was it the flirting all day? Feeling unrushed? The freedom, the anticipation, the way you looked at each other? Those details are the roadmap to creating more desire and connection now.

If your sex life feels fine but you want it to feel more alive, connected, and uniquely yours, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.`

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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily
01:24 Is This It? The Problem With "Fine" Sex
02:33 Step 1: Notice What's Actually Happening
06:20 Step 2: Name What You Actually Want
09:47 Using Toys as Shared Discovery
10:48 Step 3: Share It (Timing Matters)
11:50 The Postpartum Story: Same Moment, Different Experience
14:04 Turn the Complaint Into a Request
16:19 Step 4: Experiment Without the Overhaul
19:53 The Reset Recap & This Week's Exercise
21:47 Closing Thought: Someone Worth Discovering

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Low desire isn’t always about your relationship or something you need to “fix” inside yourself. Sometimes, feeling more connected to your sexuality begins outside the bedroom: with creativity, friendship, novelty, connection, and getting back in touch with the parts of life that make you feel alive.

In this episode, I’m talking about why libido is shaped by so much more than sex, how to get curious before diagnosing yourself, and the small ways you can spark eroticism without putting pressure on yourself or your partner. Because a better sex life might not start with another conversation, supplement, or dating app—it might start the moment you step back into the world.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from desire, stuck in a rut, or wondering whether it’s you or your relationship, this episode is for you.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open: "Get Uncomfortable"
00:17 Welcome to Sex with Emily (+ Tour Dates)
01:54 Why Connection Is the Missing Piece
03:12 The EV Charging Station Story
06:05 Your Environment Shapes You More Than You Realize
06:56 The Missing Wellness Pillar: Social Health
09:43 What This Has to Do With Sex
13:19 Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does
15:28 The 7-Day Challenge: Increase Your Exposure to Life
16:35 Listener Q&A: Roommates, Dating Apps & Libido
24:34 Today's Message & Outro

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Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… because after 20 years of helping people improve their sex lives, I can tell you we are way too quick to assume low desire means something is wrong with us. Sometimes the conditions around your sex life just suck. In this episode I'm giving you five very unsexy tips that can make your sex life a whole lot better, and I promise at least one of them is going to make you go, oh that's exactly us. Fair warning: number three is the one everyone rolls their eyes at. And it's the one that actually works.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.`

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Chapters:
00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily
01:24 Maybe Your Sex Life Doesn't Need Fixing
01:48 The Five Unsexy Things Overview
02:29 Tip 1: Stop Making Sex the Last Thing on the List
05:38 Tip 2: Lube Is Not a Report Card
07:54 Tip 3: Put Possibility on the Calendar (Schedule Sex)
10:46 Tip 4: Your Sex Life Doesn't Live Outside Your Body
12:38 Where to Keep Your Lube (Plus a Product Note)
13:21 Tip 5: You Can't Go From Project Manager to Sex Goddess in 30 Seconds
16:21 Recap: Pick One Unsexy Thing to Start
17:29 Outro & Where to Find More

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What if the reason you keep having the same fight with your partner isn't that you don't love each other, it's that you're speaking completely different love languages? You may be giving love exactly the way you'd want to receive it, while your partner is waiting for something totally different.

In this throwback episode, I'm breaking down the five love languages, acts of service, gift giving, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation, and how understanding yours (and your partner's) can help you move through resentment, feel more connected, and bring more intimacy into your relationship. We also get into how each love language can show up sexually, what to do when yours don't match, and simple ways to make your partner actually feel the love you're already trying to give.

If you've ever wondered why your efforts don't seem to land, why the same relationship frustrations keep coming back, or how to create more love and better sex without overcomplicating it, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT WITH EMILY:

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0:00 - What If Love Languages Could Lead to Better Sex?
2:42 - The Five Love Languages Explained
5:00 - Acts of Service in and Out of the Bedroom
9:00 - Gift Giving (and the Sex Act That Falls Under It)
13:00 - Physical Touch — Emily Gets Personal
18:00 - When Your Partner Doesn't Share Your Love Language
22:00 - Quality Time: Being Together vs. Being Present
26:00 - Words of Affirmation (Yes, Dirty Talk Counts)
28:00 - When You and Your Partner Speak Different Languages
32:11 - Love Languages in Long Distance Relationships
33:23 - How to Spot Someone's Love Language Without Asking
35:18 - How Each Love Language Translates Into Sex
37:00 - Caller #1: She Accidentally Shamed His Penis
41:00 - Caller #2: Not Attracted to His Girlfriend Anymore

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Let's talk about why initiating sex in your relationship started feeling like a test… because somewhere along the way, that moment of reaching for your partner stopped feeling like closeness and started feeling like a pass-fail question hanging in the air. Am I about to get rejected? Am I going to disappoint them? And when initiation starts to feel that way, both people stop doing it. In this episode I'm giving you five concrete steps to change the whole dynamic, starting with one reframe that makes everything else possible.

We're talking about how to read the room before you even reach for your partner, what to say instead of do you want to have sex, how to bridge the gap when one of you has been thinking about it all day and the other just got done folding laundry, and the one response to a no that either builds or destroys trust over time.

If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, talked yourself out of initiating, or noticed that the affection in your relationship quietly disappeared along with the sex, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

00:00 When Initiation Starts to Feel Like a Test

01:20 Meet Dr. Emily & Why Initiation Trips Couples Up

02:08 The Mindset Shift: Invitation, Not Contract

02:28 Reframing Initiation as an Invitation

03:40 The Five-Step Overview

03:55 Step 1: Time the Invitation

04:26 Step 2: Make It an Invitation, Not an Audition

05:34 Step 3: Close the Desire Gap

07:18 Step 4: Ditch the Yes-or-No Trap (Try the 1-10 Scale)

08:48 Step 5: Protect the No

09:59 The Bigger Conversation to Have Outside the Bedroom

10:31 Recap: Building Safety So Desire Can Grow

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Let's talk about the sex skills nobody teaches you and why most people are still waiting for their partner to figure it out instead of just saying it out loud… because that's exactly what today's callers are done doing. In this episode I'm taking live calls from people who are done leaving their pleasure up to chance. We've got a 27 year old who wants to learn how to squirt on her own without relying on anyone to do it for her, a couple who wants to bring others into their play but can't figure out how to find the right people, and a woman whose new partner flat out refused to try to make her orgasm. I promise that last one goes somewhere really good. If you have ever felt like you were the only one carrying the weight of your own pleasure, this episode will change that.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Visit the Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ which includes FREE guides.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

02:19 Call 1: How Do I Learn to Squirt on My Own

04:30 Squirting vs Orgasm: Are They the Same Thing

06:30 What Actually Helps With Squirting

09:00 Teaching Yourself Before You Teach a Partner

11:30 Call 2: We Want to Open Things Up But Can't Find the Right People

14:00 How to Find Partners for Ethical Non-Monogamy

17:00 The Conversations to Have Before You Start

20:00 Call 3: He Refused to Try to Make Me Orgasm

23:00 What That Tells You About Someone Early On

26:00 Why Talking About Sex Early Saves You So Much Time

29:00 If You're Naked With Someone It's Time to Start Talking

31:00 What Sexually Healthy Actually Means

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