Shameless Sex

By Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts

Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the... more

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April 08, 2025#428 Mastering Dirty Talk with Ashley Manta
Are you ready to take your intimate conversations to the next level? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive into the tantalizing world of dirty talk with the incredible Ashley Manta!

Join us as Ashley—an award-winning sex educator and the mastermind behind the CannaSexual® brand—shares her expertise on how to spice up your verbal game in the bedroom. With a history as a phone sex operator and a wealth of knowledge on the mindful integration of cannabis and eroticism, Ashley is here to help you embrace the awkward and find your unique voice.

What You’ll Learn:
The Art of Dirty Talk: Discover how to confidently express your desires and fantasies.
Embracing Imperfection: Learn why it’s okay for your dirty talk to be awkward or imperfect.
Body Language vs. Words: Explore how sometimes, actions speak louder than words.
Personalization: Understand that what’s sexy is different for everyone—find what works for you and your partner.
Practical Tips: Get actionable advice on how to start incorporating dirty talk into your intimate life and some fun ways to learn how to master it.
Benefits for You:
Boost your confidence in bed and enhance intimacy with your partner.
Learn to communicate desires in a playful and fun way.
Transform awkward moments into exciting opportunities for connection and getting naughty with your bedroom game with your words.

With Ashley’s engaging insights and playful approach, you’ll walk away ready to explore the art of dirty talk like never before!

Teaser:
Tune in to discover how embracing the awkward can lead to the most deliciously sexy conversations of your life. You won’t want to miss Ashley's expert tips that will have you and your partner talking—and feeling—hotter than ever!
Ashley’s mission is simple and radical: to help people have better sex, deeper connections, and more liberated lives. To learn more go to https://www.ashleymanta.com/.

Enroll in Ashley's upcoming program by April 11th for $111 off

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

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Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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56min
April 04, 2025 Bonus Episode: Bad Boys, Table Dancing, and the 90s - with Rom Com Vom from Sex Ed with DB
We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic.
Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts.

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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April 01, 2025#427 Dating Done Dirty: The Good, The Bad, and The Funny with Dirty Lola
Are you ready to dive into the wild world of dating? From sparks flying to cringe-worthy moments, this episode of Shameless Sex has it all!

Join us as we welcome Dirty Lola, the award-winning sex edutainer and self-proclaimed dildo slinger, to unpack the complexities of modern dating. Known for her live Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and her role as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola brings her wealth of knowledge and playful spirit to the conversation.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
The highs and lows of dating in today’s world
How to navigate awkward first dates and red flags
Tips for effective communication and setting boundaries
Dating app hacks from the expert
The importance of self-love and confidence in attracting the right partner
Real-life dating stories that will make you laugh and cringe
Get ready to giggle, gasp, and gain insights that will transform your dating life! Whether you're swiping right or feeling stuck in a dating rut, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways and entertaining anecdotes.

Audience Benefits:
Feel empowered to tackle your dating life with confidence
Gain practical tools for better communication and self-expression
Discover how to turn dating disasters into learning experiences

Don’t miss out on Dirty Lola's expert advice and delightful humor! Tune in for a rollercoaster ride through the ups and downs of dating, and leave with a renewed perspective on finding love.

Teaser:
Stick around until the end for Lola’s spicy tips on how to date like the experts and some easy tips to get the most out of dating apps—trust us, you won’t want to miss this!

Listen now and let’s get down and dirty about dating!

Find more Dirty Lola at www.dirtylola.co or on IG: @Dirtylola

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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1h 20min
March 25, 2025#426 Get Savage: Sex and Porn with Dan Savage
Navigate the complexities of modern relationships and sex with the help of one of the world’s most trusted voices in sexuality. In this episode of Shameless Sex, we sit down with Dan Savage, the best-selling author and the brilliant mastermind behind the Savage Love column and the Savage Love podcast. Get ready for an eye opening discussion that will leave you questioning, laughing, and HUMPing!

In this episode, you’ll discover:
The wild ride of podcasting since 2005: What it was like to be an original podcaster and how the medium has evolved.
Writing about sex since the 90’s: How Dan’s shaped sex past, present, and future.
An inside look at HUMP! Fest: The inspiration behind it, Dan’s HUMP! journey, and why you need to experience it for yourself (and possibly become a HUMP creator yourself).
Dan’s Dictionary: What is GGG, Tolyamory, and other fascinating words and phrases all coined by Dan.
New sexual terms and trends: What’s bubbling up in the world of sex, and how Dan brilliantly interprets them.
Insight into sex and politics: What keeps Dan up at night and why it matters to you.
Join us as we dive deep into these topics with Dan Savage, an influential media pundit, activist, and co-founder of the It Gets Better Project. He brings his signature wit and wisdom to help you navigate your own sexual journey.

Benefits of tuning in:
Gain fresh perspectives on sex and relationship dynamics from the OG of sexuality podcasts.
Learn practical advice you can apply to your own life. Why not get smarter and more shameless?
Be entertained and ready to laugh while learning about Dan’s feelings on role play, porn, and writing a syndicated sex column since the 1990s

Curious about what’s next for Dan? Stick around until the end for an exclusive teaser about his upcoming projects that you won't want to miss!

Teaser:
Get ready to indulge in a shamelessly fun conversation that will inspire you to embrace your desires and redefine your relationships with the podcasting legend who started it all!

Get more Dan Savage and check out HUMP! Fest in a city near you.
Subscribe to Dan’s premium MAGNUM content to go big with Dan.

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get $10 off an amazing course about how to talk to kids and teens about sex with code EMPOWER at https://www.empoweredcaretakers.com

Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com

Get 15% off your curated experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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1h 9min
March 18, 2025#425 How to Suck That D Like a Champ with Dr. Alison Ash
Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we’ve got you covered!

In this episode, you’ll learn:
The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers.
Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom.
A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key!
Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure.
Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level.
Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience!
Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure.
Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss!

Why should you tune in?
This episode is not just about technique; it’s about fostering confidence and intimacy in your sexual experiences. Dr. Alison Ash brings her wealth of knowledge and passion for sexuality to help you navigate the often-taboo topic of oral pleasure in a fun and open environment.

Meet Dr. Alison Ash:
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. With a PhD from Stanford, she’s a leading voice in addressing the complexities of sexual experiences, including her pioneering research on the orgasm gap and queer and trans dynamics. Dr. Aly's extensive training in various therapeutic approaches makes her insights both profound and practical.

Whether you're looking to improve your skills or simply want to learn more about the nuances of intimacy, this conversation will leave you informed, empowered, and maybe a little cheeky.

Links
To learn more visit turnon.love
Group coaching program: www.TurnON.love/empowered-dating-coaching
Retreat tickets: www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat
Individual, couples, and polycule coaching: www.TurnON.love/coaching
On-demand rentals: www.TurnON.love/workshops

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com

Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
...more
59min
March 11, 2025#424 Bi-Curious Adventures and Threesomes with Darshana Avila
Are you ready to dive into the enticing world of bi-curiosity and threesomes? Join us in this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the thrilling intersection of desire, identity, and pleasure with the incredible Darshana Avila!

In this engaging conversation, we tackle the burning questions surrounding bi-curiosity and navigate the complexities of threesomes in a way that’s both enlightening and playful.

What You’ll Learn
The truth behind the stereotype: Are women really more bi-curious?
Is bi-curiosity just a phase, or something deeper?
Navigating feelings of attraction to women while in a monogamous relationship.
Tips for exploring your queerness solo or outside of your partnership.
The ins and outs of introducing threesomes into your relationship: communication is key!
Debunking the myths: Why is there a preference for same-sex threesomes?
Resources and guidance for embracing your bi-curiosity and exploring threesomes.

Darshana Avila, a trauma-informed and pleasure-centric erotic educator, is here to guide you through this vibrant landscape. Known for her expertise on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop, she passionately supports women and the queer community through her private practice and public engagements.

Why Listen?
This episode offers a safe space to explore your desires and curiosities, providing actionable advice and resources to enhance your sexual journey. Whether you're contemplating a threesome or simply curious about your bi-identity, Darshana’s insights will empower you to embrace your truth.

Teaser
Get ready to unlock new levels of pleasure and understanding! Tune in for an enlightening discussion that just might change the way you view your desires. Let’s get shamelessly curious together!

Links
To learn more go to darshanaavila.com
Darshana on YouTube - youtube.com/@darshana-avila
Check out Gal Gasm and become a member at - https://www.skool.com/galgasm

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:
Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com

Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
...more
1h 13min
March 07, 2025 Bonus Episode: MILFs Love Sex Toys!
In this bonus episode Amy interviews her mom - co-owner of the mother-daughter run online adult store (alongside Amy) http://purepleasureshop.com - all about sex toys! From what sex toys were like in the 60's -90's to how they've evolved, as well as her mom's own personal experiences with sex toys from teenage years to current day, be prepared to learn, laugh, and feel inspired to find the right sex toy for you at any age.

Key products from the interview:

The Magic Wand Mini: https://tinyurl.com/mpbjjc8f
The Magic Wand Original: https://tinyurl.com/yc4mfckj
SpareParts harnesses: https://tinyurl.com/mrc5m7xk
The Big Boss: https://tinyurl.com/yvawp8a3
The Lelo Sona 2: https://tinyurl.com/2pb4enax
The Womanizer Premium 2: https://tinyurl.com/hcrk4hw7
Uberlube: https://tinyurl.com/5d78bc66
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Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
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33min
March 04, 2025#423 Are Unicorns Real? The Truth About Threesomes with Reid Mihalko
Have you ever wondered if unicorns exist—not just in fairy tales but in the world of sexuality? In this tantalizing episode of Shameless Sex, sits down with the fabulous Reid Mihalko, the original Unicorn of the sex education world, to explore the magical realm of threesomes and the unique role of unicorns in intimate relationships.

What You’ll Learn: What is a Unicorn? Discover the definition and the reality behind this elusive creature in the world of sexuality.
Threesome Midwives: Learn why unicorns are considered the essential guides for navigating threesomes successfully.
Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and challenges of being a unicorn in today’s dating landscape.
Tips for Unicorns: Get practical advice on how to find partners, navigate playtime, and make the most of your unicorn experience.
Playing with Unicorns: Essential tips for those looking to connect with and enjoy experiences with unicorns.

Join us as we dive into a conversation filled with playful insights, expert advice, and a sprinkle of sass! With Reid Mihalko's extensive background as a queer, polyamorous educator featured on Netflix’s “Chelsea Does…” and HBO’s “Sex Diaries,” you can trust that you’re in for a wild ride!

Why Listen?
Whether you’re curious about exploring new dynamics in your relationships or seeking to enhance your intimate life, this episode is packed with actionable tips and thought-provoking discussions that will inspire you to embrace your sexuality confidently.

Teaser: Ready to discover if unicorns are more than just a myth? Tune in and unlock the secrets of playful intimacy that could transform your love life!

Links and Socials:
Reid’s Join the Unicorps retreat + this episode - March 7-11th 2025, New Orleans + more to come - https://JoinTheUnicorps.com
Want more Reid: https://reidaboutsex.com

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com

Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
...more
1h 16min
February 27, 2025 Bonus Celebratory Episode: Love, Riding, Fellatio, Swallowing, and Bondage
In this ad-free episode we are celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting a number of our amazing black educators, artists, and doctors who have shared their brilliant wisdom and gifts on our show. From love, dating and finding "the one" to riding him like a cowgirl, oral sex/fellatio, swallowing and deep-throating, and kink/BDSM/bondage - these 7-10 minute clips will blow your mind! For full episodes be sure to check out the following on your favorite podcast app:

Damona Hoffman #365 Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story
Tyomi #344 How to Ride that D like a Cowgirl
Jody ProHoeVocative #387 Pleasing That D from a Fellatio Expert
Dr. Ianessa Humbert #329 Swallowing, Oral Sex, and Deep-Thorating
Orpheus Black #333 Tie Me Up!

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
...more
48min
February 25, 2025#422 Top Sex Trends of 2025 with Susan Bratton - Part 2
Are you ready to explore the future of pleasure? Dive into the vibrant world of sexual wellness with intimacy expert Susan Bratton, as we uncover the most exciting sex trends of 2025 in this hilarious and insightful second part of our two-part series!

In this episode, you’ll learn about:
Yummy Gummy Sex: Discover how candy flips, love gummies, and even shroom sex are revolutionizing your intimate encounters.
At Home STI-Testing: Find out why the pandemic led to a new era in sexual health and how you can test with ease from home.
The Clean Sex Oil Movement: Get the scoop on eco-friendly, sustainably packaged sex oils that are redefining self-care.
Penis Empowerment & P-Spot Activation: Explore advanced techniques that shift focus from the tip to deeper, more fulfilling experiences.
Sex Treat and Retreats: Learn about indulgent getaways that blend goddess embodiment and Tantric exploration, including our very own Shameless Sex retreat in Palm Springs!

Join us for a lively conversation filled with playful banter and expert advice from Susan Bratton, a trusted intimacy expert whose work has empowered millions to enhance their sexual lives. So, whether you're a seasoned lover or just curious about what’s next in the world of sex and intimacy, this episode promises to be entertaining and insightful.

Teaser:
By tuning in, you’ll gain practical tips and product recommendations to easily access these trends, ensuring your sex life remains fresh, exciting, and profoundly pleasurable.

Links & Socials:
Get all the products featured in this episode at: www.AprilAmy.com
To learn more about our guest expert visit: www.susanbratton.com

Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef

Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm

Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Other links:

Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com

Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
...more
53min

FAQs about Shameless Sex:

How many episodes does Shameless Sex have?

The podcast currently has 476 episodes available.