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How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important?

About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from lectures at Ivy League Universities to kink demonstrations at dive bars. She's been featured in podcasts and print + digital publications on topics like beginner’s tips, BDSM how-tos, spicing up date night, self-care and sexual wellness, and - of course - the latest sex toys and trends. (She was even given the kinda absurd yet accurate title of “sex toy fairy godmother” in an article for Women’s Health Magazine). Always lacing humor into her lessons, Finn makes it a goal to "make sex-positive information accessible, and remind [everyone] that pleasure should be fun." To learn more go to https://www.babeland.com/

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When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to venture down this path? And what makes SHA different from other sexuality training programs? 

About our guest: Heather McPherson is the CEO and Founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, a premier education and certification provider for sexuality professionals. Heather also founded Respark, a national brand that encompasses a group therapy practice, Respark Foundation Nonprofit, and ReSpark Retreats. Respark Therapy & Associates (respark.co) is a group practice that serves Colorado, Washington and Texas specializing in sexuality and relationships. She is published in Playboy Magazine as well as Playboy Online, and has been featured on CNN, HuffPost, Rolling Stone, SheKnows, Quartz, Bravo, the Body, the Sun, Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Psychology Today with Dr. David Ley, Parent Harald, and more. 

Heather McPherson has lectured at prestigious universities including University of Texas at Austin, Texas State University, University of Utah, University of Colorado Denver and Governors State University in Chicago. She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S). She also is the Texas Section Leader for AASECT (American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists). She has appeared on several podcasts including Loveline with Dr. Chris Donaghue as well as Sex with Dr. Jess. Heather helps clients gain confidence, rebuild trust, increase playfulness, and find passion and meaning in their erotic lives. Heather graduated with honors from Texas State University with a MA in Marriage, Couple and Family Therapy; a CACREP Accredited Program. To learn more go to https://sexualhealthalliance.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sexualhealthalliance

https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualhealthalliance

https://www.facebook.com/SHAteams

https://www.instagram.com/resparkgroup

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In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom.

Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, through which she offers concierge guidance and online courses and resources for couples and individuals exploring healthy non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. She has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016, committed to promoting consensual, empowered, and respectful interactions as a leader within the sex-positive space. As a certified consent and communication specialist and respected non-monogamy ‘sexpert’, Ally sits on the executive leadership board of one of LA’s most distinguished sex-positive nightlife events. She regularly shares her insights on podcasts and at live events, and has been quoted in numerous consumer and industry-facing publications, further solidifying her reputation as a knowledgeable and influential voice on the subject of non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics.

Contact: [email protected]

Website: www.passport2pleasure.com

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Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com

Other links:

Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

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What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have more pleasurable period sex?

About our guest: Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators with Jordan D’Nelle is designed to give women a place to learn about women’s health and sexual wellness. Tune in every Thursday for topics that are relevant to learning how women’s bodies work and how to improve your intimate life. To learn more go to http://jordandnelle.com

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Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

Listen to the Wild and Sublime podcast here: https://wildandsublime.com/podcast

Other links:

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Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic, featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator.

Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves. In this episode, we hear from porn performers and directors about why the Magic Wand works so well in on-screen sex – and why filming with it can sometimes be challenging.

Guests this episode:

Listen to the full episode here: http://https://makingmagicseries.com

More about the Making Magic mini series:

Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World's Most Famous Vibrator

Listen on your favorite podcast app or checkout their website at http://makingmagicseries.com

In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below.

About our guest: Jody is a certified sexologist and fellatio instructor, unapologetically exploring the realms of sexuality, blending candid discussions on sexual health, personal stories, and kinks. She is also the resident Sexpert at Tease University, helping women explore their sexuality in an unfiltered, raunchy, and provocative way.

After more than a decade of repressed sexual desires and sexual shame, she realized that to have a more pleasurable sex life, she had to unlearn how she viewed sex. Along her journey, she discovered that many others shared similar stories and made it her mission to help women reclaim and reimagine their sexuality.

Jody also offers the following services for couples, singles, and groups: kink exploration sessions, pleasure and sex goal mapping, her signature Throat choreography class (fellatio class), and sensual massage and stretching. In addition to being on The Never Ever Mets, Jody has been featured on Yahoo! Lifestyle, Vocal.org, and WBEZ discussing sexual freedom and healthy sex conversations. Jody has also appeared on Whoreible Decisions, the Hard or Soft Show, So Shameless, We Talk Back, Tequila Tlk, Esh your Heart out, Cocktales Dirty Discussions Live Tour, Exxxotica, and more. You may have also recently seen her on OWN's new reality TV series "The Never Ever Mets." 

You can connect with Jody here: 

Instagram: @jodyprhoe

Website: PrHOEvocative.com

Classes/services: beacons.ai/prhoevocative

Podcast: prhoevocative.podbean.com

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In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares.

About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, digestible sex education has garnered her success throughout the world and her love for coaching women has impacted millions. Tyomi is the founder of The Cowgirl Workout™ and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She also serves as the seminar coordinator for The Exxxotica Expo, the Largest Event Dedicated to Love and Sex in the USA. To learn more go to linktr.ee/realglamazontyomi

Products we referenced in the show:

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Sportsheets 5-Piece Hog Tie Cuffs and Set

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This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people move through/beyond body shame and discover their unique “sexy”. Be prepared to laugh and learn because these two women are absolutely shameless!

About our guests: Florence Bark is a content-creator, and sex and relationships expert, and author of 'This book will make you feel something'. Using her own experiences as (often painful) gold, her expansive, multi-disciplinary work cuts to the heart of what it means to live in pursuit of a genuinely fulfilling and growth-inspiring love and sex life. 

Sex Educator and presenter Reed Amber has been in the adult industry for over 10 years both behind and in front of the camera. She has always been passionate about achieving equality and high levels of duty of care in an industry that can lack both. Reed worked as an ethical porn director and is now an advocate for sex-worker rights. She has been a regular guest on the BBC Tricky podcast for kinks, festishes and sex work as well as Cosmopolitan discussing pleasure and sexuality. 

Together they are the co-creators of Come Curious, a leading British sex and relationships YouTube channel, with over 218k subscribers. Their award-winning podcast ‘F**ks Given’ (now Come Curious) has over 5 million listens on episodes exploring everything from polyamory and fetishes to STIs and having difficult conversations with your partner.

Links:

linktr.ee/comecurious

instagram.com/reedamberx

linktr.ee/reedamberxx

https://geni.us/thisbookwill

www.florencebark.com

Instagram: @florencebark

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Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

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What is the slut pledge and why should we take it? How does embracing our desires relate to bravery? What does it mean to “lose your erotic virginity”, and how does this bring more pleasure and aliveness into one's life? How does being a bisexual person require a lot of erotic bravery? Are bi folks the ultimate unicorn for threesomes? And what are some top tips (regardless of orientation) for successful threesomes?

About our guest: April Hirschman is the author of the self-help book Best Breakup Ever! Her new memoir Desire Makes Me Brave came out in March 2024. She is a sex and relationship coach and the host of the Heart Centerfold Memoir podcast. She is also a belly dancer, film maker and yoga instructor. To learn more go to Aprilhirschman.com

Links

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Fb April Hirschman

TikTok April.Hirschman

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How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/trunk)? What is the purpose of couples making a "mood board" and how does it apply beyond building sex rooms? How can couples uncover their desires and fantasies to add more play and sexiness into the bedroom and beyond? What are some simple DIY ways people can sexify their spaces here and now? And what about sex rooms or toys/products for folks with disabilities? The one, the only, the talented Melanie Ruth Rose shares this and more.

About our guest: Melanie Rose was born and raised in London, England. She spent over a decade as a successful actress in theater and television. Since relocating to Los Angeles she has become a much sought-after interior designer. Alongside traditional design and renovations, she also specializes in creating “sacred spaces:” rooms, suites and areas dedicated to the sensual and erotic. She is the host, designer, and consulting producer of the wildly successful reality show on Netflix “How To Build A Sex Room”. To learn more go to http://melanieruthrose.com

Follow her on Instagram @melanieruthrose

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