Durable Dad with Tommy Geary

101: Motivation That Doesn’t Run Out


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Most men try to push themselves forward with criticism—but that fuel burns out fast.

Episode Highlights:

  • Why putting pressure on ourselves feels logical but actually drains energy
  • How early success conditions us to rely on fear and shame
  • Signs your self-talk is undermining motivation (numbing out, overworking, chasing validation)
  • The shift from critic to cheerleader—what it sounds like in real life

Takeaways:

  • Notice when your self-talk is critical and learn to reflect on the impact.
  • Trade pressure for encouragement—end your day by naming wins, not misses.
  • Practice the same positive reinforcement with yourself that you want to give your kids and team.

This week, take stock of your own motivation. Is your critic driving—or your cheerleader?

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Durable Dad with Tommy GearyBy Tommy Geary