10/10: Living A Full Life with Mike and Velden

Some lessons cost you money.

Some cost you opportunities.

Some cost you relationships.

And some cost you years before you finally understand them.

What if you didn’t have to learn all of them the hard way?

Today, Velden turns 40. 🥳 

Instead of just looking back at the last four decades, he’s sharing the lessons he wishes more people could learn earlier.

Whether you’re 20, 30, 40, or still trying to figure life out—this episode is for you.

🎙️ DON’T WAIT UNTIL 40 TO REALIZE THESE 10 THINGS

A special birthday episode of the 10/10 Podcast.

Watch now. You might just hear something your future self will thank you for. 

🫶 To support this podcast, buy Mike and Velden a coffee at ko-fi.com/10over10podcast. 

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What happens when the place that was supposed to help you heal becomes the place that hurts you?

Church hurt is complicated. The pain is deep and real—betrayal, rejection, conflict, disappointment, or wounds caused by people we trusted. 

But sometimes, “church hurt” may be correction, unmet expectations, or the reality of belonging to an imperfect community.

So how do we know the difference? How do we heal without walking away from God?

In this episode of the 10/10 Podcast, we sit down with Fr. Albert Garong to have an honest conversation about the messy side of Christian community.

We also talk about some difficult questions: 

Is it ever okay to leave a church or community?

How do you deal with difficult people?

How do you protect yourself without building walls around your heart?

And if Christians can hurt us deeply, why do we still need Christian community at all?

If you’ve ever been hurt by the Church, struggled to trust Christian community again, or wondered whether you should stay or walk away, this conversation is for you.

🎙️ Watch Episode 23 now -- Church Hurt: When Christians Make You Want to Leave Church

🫶 To support this podcast, buy Mike and Velden a coffee at ko-fi.com/10over10podcast. 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

What is it really like to be a woman navigating the modern dating scene? 🤔

After hearing from the men, this time, the women take the mic.

We sit down with Karen and Pau in different seasons of life and relationships for an honest conversation about dating today—from talking stages and situationships to standards, expectations, rejection, commitment, and the search for something real.

What are women actually looking for in a man? 

Have dating apps and endless options made finding love easier—or more complicated? 

Are women’s standards getting too high? 

What does it mean for a man to lead a relationship? 

This isn’t an episode about blaming men or women for what’s wrong with dating today. And we’re definitely not claiming to have all the answers.

We’re listening, learning, and trying to understand dating from the perspective of the people actually living it.

Because maybe navigating modern dating requires more than finding someone you have chemistry with.

Whether you’re single, dating, in a situationship you probably need to define 😅, or simply wondering what women really think about modern relationships—this conversation is for you.

The men had their say. Now, let’s hear from the women.

🎙️ Watch Episode 22 now -- Modern Dating: What Women Wish Men Knew

🫶 To support this podcast, buy Mike and Velden a coffee at ko-fi.com/10over10podcast. 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

Why does finding real love seem more complicated--when modern dating gives us more ways to meet people than ever before? 

Dating apps. Talking stages. Situationships. Ghosting. Breadcrumbing. 

Endless options, unclear intentions, and the pressure to find the “perfect” person. 

Somewhere along the way, dating became easier to start—but harder to define.

In this episode of the 10/10 Podcast, we sit down with actual singles navigating today’s dating scene to talk openly about what it’s really like to date in this generation. 

No experts. No perfect formulas. Just honest experiences, different perspectives, and lessons we’re still learning ourselves.

Let’s talk about love, dating, and relationships in the modern world, and how to navigate all of it with the right intention.

🎙️ Watch Episode 21 now -- Modern Dating: What Men Wish Women Knew

🫶 To support this podcast, buy Mike and Velden a coffee at ko-fi.com/10over10podcast. 

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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tiktok.com/@mikevinas_

🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

If you had one moment with someone who has built a successful life, stayed faithful through the years, raised a family, led thousands, and somehow remained grounded through it all… what would you ask him?

We had that moment with Bro. Bo Sanchez in this episode. 

We threw away the usual interview format and asked him anything and everything under the sun.

Does Bo Sanchez ever get insecure? 

What’s his greatest regret? 

What would he do differently if he were 25 again? 

How does he correct someone in love? 

How did he discipline his kids? 

Why is he still optimistic about the Philippines? 

How does he work so much without burning out? 

What does he think men need to hear today?

Faith, money, marriage, parenting, leadership, ministry, health, AI, work, insecurity, success—and even the things he used to believe but no longer does.

When you get the chance to sit with someone who seems to be living a full life, we didn't just ask about what he’s accomplished but how he became the person he is today. 

This is our anything-under-the-sun conversation with Bro. Bo Sanchez—and somewhere in his answers might be something you need for your own life, too.

🎙️ Watch Episode 20 now -- AMAs: Ask Me Anything with Bro Bo Sanchez. 

🫶 To support this podcast, buy Mike and Velden a coffee at ko-fi.com/10over10podcast. 

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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tiktok.com/@mikevinas_

🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

We celebrate the wins, the achievements, the influence, the financial breakthroughs, but behind every success are sacrifices most people never see.

In this episode, we sit down with Bro. Bo Sanchez to have an honest conversation about the hidden cost of success. 

From building businesses and leading ministries to raising a family and protecting what matters most, Bro. Bo shares the lessons he’s learned in pursuing success without losing his soul.

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, leader, parent, or simply someone striving for more, this episode will challenge you to ask:

What is success costing you, and is it a price you’re willing to pay?

🎙️ Watch Episode 19 now and join the conversation with Bro. Bo Sanchez: The Cost of Success

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

Are we raising children who are protected or prepared? 🤔

In our desire to give our kids a better childhood than we had, have we accidentally made them less ready for the real world?

Should children be shielded from failure… or allowed to struggle? 

Is gentle parenting enough? 

Are participation trophies helping or hurting? 

How do we raise kids who are both emotionally healthy and spiritually resilient?

In this episode, we unpack the balance between compassion and courage, protection and preparation, affirmation and accountability.

Because one day, our children won’t just need safe spaces. They’ll need a strong foundation that is built now.

Whether you’re a parent, teacher, youth leader, mentor, or simply someone who cares about the next generation, this conversation is for you.

🎙️ Watch Episode 18 now and join the conversation with Dr. Michele Alignay: Are We Raising Stronger or Softer Generations?

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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tiktok.com/@mikevinas_

🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

Mental health is real. The struggles are real. And the need for compassion is real. 👌

But here’s the uncomfortable question nobody wants to ask:

Have we become so afraid of offending people that we’ve stopped talking about personal responsibility? 🤔

When does mental health become a legit limitation? And when does it become a convenient explanation for behavior that should still be addressed?

This week, we’re diving into the tension between empathy, accountability, and the truth about mental health with Registered Psychologist, the Director of LOJ Pastoral Care Center, Dr. Michele Alignay, PhD. 

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

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Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

When does masculinity cross the line into toxicity? 🤔

How do we stay grounded in God’s design for manhood without losing strength, conviction, and courage? 🧐

These are the raw, honest questions Velden and Mike wrestle with in our latest podcast episode: “Be The Man: Asserting Masculinity Without The Toxicity.”

This isn’t surface-level talk. It’s a real conversation about strength, leadership, identity, and becoming the kind of man God actually calls us to be. 🔥

Lean in. Listen closely. And get ready to rumble. 🥊

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang

“If he doesn’t have money, he’s not worth dating.”

“Level up or get left behind.”

“Men should provide.”

At the same time? Men are told they’re too toxic, too soft, too much, not enough.

So where does that leave them? Confused. Pressured. Stuck.

Wanting to step up but unsure what they’re even stepping into.

In this episode, Mike and Velden unpack the tension shaping modern manhood from social media standards to silent expectations.

They ask the question most men are afraid to face: Are you stepping into real manhood… or slowly slipping into passivity?

Listen to “Will the Real Men Please Stand Up: Reclaiming Manhood from Passivity”. 

📲 Let’s stay connected: 

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🙌 Come to the faith communities we lead: 

📍Feast Club United

Sundays, 9am and 11:30am

Ballroom, Club United

Merville Access Rd, Parañaque

📍 Feast Alabang Northgate

Sundays, 10am

Filinvest One Bldg.

Northgate Cyberzone, Alabang