What happens when life throws you into survival mode just weeks before your third child arrives?

The Drapers open up about their current chaotic season with Michaela on bed rest at 30 weeks pregnant and Brad overwhelmed with juggling everything solo. While admitting they're barely completing 75% of their daily tasks, they've discovered the power of "heavenly winks" - those unexpected beautiful moments like spontaneous toddler cuddles that shine through the darkness.

This raw conversation dives deep into relationship dynamics during stressful times, emphasizing that **perfection isn't the goal - connection is.** They tackle the dangerous habit of equating task priorities with relationship priorities and share how personal insecurities can sabotage partnerships. 
The couple stresses that self-awareness must come before loving others effectively. You can't pour from an empty cup, and expecting your partner to fulfill all your emotional needs is a recipe for disappointment. Their key insight? Personal happiness is your responsibility, not your partner's burden.

Through honest discussions about communication breakdowns, work-life balance, and the necessity of uncomfortable personal growth, the Drapers remind us that challenging seasons are temporary - but the lessons learned can strengthen relationships forever.

Ready to discover how to find light in your own chaotic season? Listen to this episode for practical wisdom on thriving together when life gets messy.

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