Oh boy! When I realized I was holding others MORE accountable with this question than MYSELF it really hit me like a ton of bricks. "Are my actions aligning with my words?" Actions DO NOT speak louder than words or vice versa. The sweet spot is when actions and words are in alignment. If they are not our self-esteem and self-trust is chipped away at. When they are we are connected to our truth, in flow and progress happens abundantly. That, my friend, is what I call a "self-love win"! Sign up for the retreat here. Find Jenny here and here.