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In this episode, Spencer uncovers the blind spots that derail believers, pastors, and leaders alike. From the dangers of ignoring correction, to confusing success with faithfulness, to redefining biblical priorities in marriage and ministry—this is a raw conversation you can’t afford to miss.

We’ll break down recent church scandals, talk about why flattery is dangerous insulation, explore the biblical order of family and ministry, and even react to viral TikToks that reveal cultural blind spots about identity, marriage, and victim mentality.


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Timestamps

1:00 – Church scandals, Robert Morris, and the call to longevity
3:20 – Tesla blind spot analogy: Why leaders need accountability
6:20 – Blind Spot #1: Refusing correction and feedback
9:40 – Echo chambers, flattery, and the danger of insulation
12:00 – Rehoboam’s failure in 1 Kings 12
16:00 – Blind Spot #2: Confusing success with health & faithfulness
18:45 – God’s Kingdom priorities: Spouse → Kids → Ministry
23:30 – The “God complex” of overworking in ministry
26:50 – TikTok Rot segment: Serena Williams & cotton controversy
32:30 – Marriage roles, last names, and biblical headship
36:50 – Closing: Speaking truth in a world full of lies