In this heartfelt episode, we tackle a challenging topic facing relationships at this moment: how to keep our hearts open when political differences threaten to pull us apart. With the presidential election heightening tensions in many families in the US, we share our own journey of learning to have these difficult conversations, acknowledging the very real pain and fear that can arise when we feel fundamentally misunderstood by those closest to us.

Drawing from our experience, we offer a compassionate framework that emphasizes connection over conversion. Through practical examples and vulnerable sharing, we demonstrate how curiosity about each other's experiences can create bridges of understanding, reminding us that beneath our political identities, we're all seeking connection, understanding, and a sense of safety in an uncertain world.

“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer and Dr. Will Van Derveer

(00:00) The Challenge of Political Divides in Relationships

(03:12) Understanding Our Conversation Goals

(07:49) The Power of Underground Dialogue: the possibility of connection across divides.

(12:44) The Role of Curiosity vs. Agenda

(15:07) Moving Beyond "Having the Answer"

(17:58) Leading with Vulnerability

(20:27) Using Relationship Agreements for success

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Resources Mentioned: 

• Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
• The Basement Talks Film (AKA The Abortion Talks Documentary)

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• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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