Join us as we dive deep into sacred sexuality with sex coach Amanda Testa, sharing our own journey of conscious intimacy alongside practical guidance for healing sexual trauma and embracing authentic pleasure. Whether single or partnered, discover how trauma-informed tantric practices can transform relationships and create more personal and interpersonal wholeness by breaking free from cultural conditioning and performative behaviors. From male performance anxiety to embodiment practices, we openly explore the challenges and breakthroughs in creating safe, conscious sexual experiences that honor both partners' wholeness.

“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer & Dr. Will Van Derveer

(0:00) Episode overview 

(2:18) From Debutante to Sex Coach: Unlearning cultural conditioning 

(4:26) Breaking free from people-pleasing patterns 

(7:16) Sacred Sexuality vs Tantric practices 

(13:46) Emotional safety in sacred sexuality 

(16:05) Addressing common misconceptions

(21:51) Working through trauma blocks before accessing pleasure 

(28:05) Cultural messaging around sexuality

(34:39) Bringing wholeness & authenticity to intimacy

(40:27) Trauma-informed approaches to sexual healing 

(44:44) Redefining male performance and erectile health 

(47:35) Closing thoughts & resources

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Resources Mentioned: 

• Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
• www.amandatesta.com
• Podcast: www.amandatesta.com/podcast/
• Free Gift: www.amandatesta.com/thegoods/

Get in Touch: 

• The Art Of We Website
• The Art of We Instagram 
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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