When addiction lives in your home, everyone feels it. In this candid conversation, host Val O’Brien sits down with longtime friend Sean to unpack what it was like growing up with a sibling battling addiction—and how God met him in the middle of fear, resentment, and uncertainty.
They talk practical steps for students living with an addicted parent/sibling, why secrecy keeps families stuck, and the slow, real hope of recovery.
What you’ll hear:
- How to talk about what’s happening at home (and who to tell)
- Healthy boundaries vs. “help” that unintentionally harms
- Dealing with anger, resentment, and the “hero/fixer” identity
- Prayer when you can’t control the outcome
- A rare story of long-term sobriety—and what changed
- Encouragement for students who feel unseen
Chapters:
00:00 – Intro
01:21 – Meet Sean
03:10 – Growing Up at Home
05:35 – When Addiction Began
08:49 – Family Impact
11:06 – Resentment & Pressure
13:35 – Wrestling with Faith
17:12 – Why Secrets Hurt
19:24 – Her Turning Point
21:50 – What God Taught Me
26:32 – Advice for Students
30:41 – If You Feel Powerless
34:37 – Closing Prayer
Resources & Links:
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