[bctt tweet="Just be done with the situation completely. " username="hope_in_her"] Key Take aways:
- Shouldn't the woman be made aware of what her significant other has done and have the choice of deciding how to take the relationship with all the information available?
- Jay believes that once the "other woman" learns of the main partner, she should only confront the man then walk away from the situation. Do you agree?
- Cornell- 2 things will happen when the main girl find out: She will leave, they will work it out.
- What's wrong with keeping the girl code?
- Men, being accountable for your actions is the best route. If you continue to lie, you will make it worst.
- The consensus of the group was that based on the information provided, this guy was a jerk.
- Even though women like the letter writer deserves answers, understand that it doesn't mean women will get the answers. They have to learn to move forward without the explanation, apology, acknowledgment, etc.
- Do YOUR RESEARCH
[bctt tweet="Dating is unpredictable" username="hope_in_her"] Timeline of the show:
- :25 Last episode recap
- :52 Is it ever ok for the "side chick" to reach out to the main girl?
- 1:38 Hope shares her personal story
- 8:37 Cornell's idea of a side chick
- 9:43 The guys have a revelation about "once a side chick."
- 10:22 Cornell just let us have it… my poor ears!
- 12:39 Do you believe the guy really wanted to be with the girl back home
- 13:52 Break
- 14:40 How should men hold themselves accountable in side chick situations?
- 16:54 Do the other woman, who was unknowingly the side chick, deserve an answer
- 19:18 The guys provide ways for women in this situation to move forward
- 22:57 Jay's bottom line
- 26:00 Hope's closing message
- 27:15 Jay always has to have the final word… lol
[bctt tweet="If you are not married, stop with the labels and go into new relationships that there could be a possibility that there is someone else." username="hope_in_her"] Have questions, stories, or want to make a comment? Email us at
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