In our passage this Sunday, Paul emphasizes how the gospel transforms relationships in the home and workplace. Paul instructs children to obey their parents, noting that this is the natural order of things. He highlights that honoring parents is the first commandment with a promise, (“that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land”) indicating that proper family dynamics have long-term benefits for children. Paul also stresses the importance of parents—especially fathers—providing Godly instruction and discipline. They are encouraged to raise their children in a way that prepares them for a well-ordered life and, ultimately, for meeting Christ.

But how is this done?

Parents are warned not to discipline out of insecurity or anger, which can provoke children to frustration or rebellion. Instead, they are called to model their parenting on the deep love and wisdom of God, acting with intentionality and grace. Paul also reminds parents that their children’s greatest need is to grow in a relationship with the Lord. Withholding correction out of fear of the child’s rejection, or what others might think, does not serve our children’s well-being.

Insecure and anxious parents don’t make good parents - we’ve all been there!

Paul’s instructions extend beyond family, addressing the roles of bondservants. He encourages bondservants to serve with sincerity, as they ultimately serve Christ. The owners of the house are called to treat their servants with respect and care, recognizing that both they and their servants are under the authority of God, who shows no partiality. Through these teachings, Paul introduces a countercultural view that the gospel reshapes all relationships, aligning them with God’s standards of love, fairness, and responsibility.

As Christians we all have people who are entrusted to our care, it is our responsibility to lift them to the Lord. By lifting others up, we demonstrate what God did for us. We give witness to the power of the gospel and the love of Christ who lifted us up to salvation.