When a newborn forces you to slow down, something unexpected happens. The Drapers discovered that stripping away the holiday chaos revealed what Christmas was really about all along (and it wasn't the endless shopping lists or packed schedules). After years of financial stress during the season, they're now celebrating simply with their family, choosing to skip the Santa promotion entirely and focus on Christ-centered values instead.

Here's the question that changed everything for them:Are you directing your energy toward what truly matters this holiday season, or just toward what's expected?

Their six-year-old remains playfully skeptical about their Santa explanation, but the Drapers recently experienced genuine magic while embodying Santa at a children's party. They're learning that kids don't remember the expensive gifts—those are forgotten quickly—but they remember simple traditions like Michaela's cinnamon rolls and childhood wassail rituals. Through shared experiences and quality time, these small moments become core memories.

The tension many fathers face is real: providing materially versus being emotionally available. But children who grow up without parental presence won't suddenly value time with their parents later, regardless of available resources then. Simple activities like living room picnics, board games, or park dates create lasting impressions that elaborate trips never could.

Listen to discover how choosing presence over presents transforms relationships.

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