If your native language is negative, it's time to learn a new one. You can wallow in where you exist with a "that's just the way things are" attitude, or you CAN change the way to speak to yourself (your language) for more powerful life results. If you've settled for less, know that you can have more. You were designed for more. It starts with speaking to yourself with a new language. Start. Start now. You can. That's rank. Think Rank.