This Empty Nest Life

117. Harnessing the Pause: How Empty Nesters Reclaim Rhythm, Energy, and Joy


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When the house quiets, your mind often rushes in. For many, this transition from full-time parent to empty nester triggers overwhelm—and the need to pause intentionally. In this episode, author and coach Jennie Phillips introduces her "Yellow Light Moments" framework to help reclaim rhythm, energy, and joy without sacrificing what came before.  

Jennie shares her personal turning point—alone on a Florida beach—where she discovered the power of slowing down for clarity and choosing her next step. We explore her four pillars of vitality: improving sleep with simple environment tweaks, simplifying nutrition with whole-food basics, finding movement at home, and integrating self-care that feels sustainable.

The conversation dives into rebuilding identity and community where Jennie emphasizes that slow, intentional choices lead to pride and presence, helping you finish this season strong.

Highlights & Key Takeaways:

  • A "Yellow Light Moment" beats rushing—pause, yield, listen, then move.
  • Movement doesn’t need a gym—start small with bodyweight and attainable goals.
  • Habit stacking builds consistency without stress.
  • Set boundaries, create white space, and say no with grace.
  • Rebuild community and find accountability post-kids.
  • Embrace identity shifts, grief, and intentional rhythms.

Jennie Phillips Bio
Jennie is a certified fitness professional, educator, author, and speaker passionate about helping others achieve vitality and balance through intentional living. With a background in teaching and curriculum development, she blends her expertise in education and fitness to inspire and empower individuals on their wellness journeys. Author of Yellow Light Moments: Maximize Your Health and Vitality Through the Power of Pausing, owner of Vitality Fitness Studio in Illinois, and creator of the RISE. MOVE. CONQUER. Event Series. Jennie spends her days living out her passion for this work and soaking up life with her husband and their four amazing kids.

Find Jennie Online: LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, Website

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