My LOTUS Moments

12 Girl Talk: Putting Side Chicks to Rest


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In this first episode of #GirlTalk, the ladies discuss their feelings about the Male's Perspective. Listen as we bury this "side chick" conversation [bctt tweet="What you accept is what you should expect" username="hope_in_her"] Key Take aways: • Always collect data, and come with FACTS as TLynn explained • Do you think it's ok to lash out at the other woman even though she owes you no loyalty? • Sometimes we give our men the benefit of the doubt because we choose to especially if he treated us better than previous guys • We choose to no force our guys to take responsibility • We often lash out that the women because we feel intimidated or feel as though we've dedicated time to our mates before they were "on" • FYI: Scorpio = automatic PI Skills! -TLynn • Pay attention to signs!! • Sometimes we are so blinded by love, we tend to apologize for the guy's wrongdoing! • When men cheat, it's not always about looks… [bctt tweet="We teach people how to treat us" username="hope_in_her"] Timeline of the show: • :48 Introductions of the ladies • 1:08 The girls discuss their feelings about #AMalesPerspective • 2:40 Dannielle shares her story • 4:55 TLynn discusses her experience • 6:02 Hope shares her story • 13:56 Niki shares her experience • 15:35 why do we continue to lash out at the other women and not the guy who put us in the situation • 17:00 Niki gets real • 21:30 We teach people how to treat us… • 22:40 Why do we have to compare ourselves to the other women • 23:35 Niki keeps dropping these gems… • 24:45 How do you get to the point of even learning about what another woman is willing to do? • 26:25 Some men don't realize that women are flirting with them [bctt tweet="We give men the benefit of the doubt because of our own high expectations." username="hope_in_her"] Have questions, stories, or want to make a comment? Email us at [email protected] Music Provided by: Brandy, Best Friend Instrumental https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MShBcTIJRs

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My LOTUS MomentsBy Hope Coleman