"Do you know what they did to me? Why should I forgive them?" This is a question many of us wrestle with in our recovery. Forgiveness and making amends are often among the hardest steps to take, and extending grace to others—and receiving it ourselves—can feel like one of the greatest challenges. As we dive into Step 9, we'll come to see that trusting the process of making amends is not just a step, but a turning point in our healing journey.