There's a difference between being a loser and just losing ground. One's a circumstance. One's a state of mind. When you start to recognize and learn from what your telling yourself, your "luck" will change. You gain nothing from feeling comfortable. Go where you're uncomfortable. Acknowlege and then learn to shatter negative thoughts. That's the difference between being a loser or just losing ground. Every day, multiple times a day, we come to mental crossroads. Make better decisions with better thought processes. That's you gaining ground. That's rank. Think Rank.