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13. The Worst Friends Ever
Lindsey welcomes Seanlai from the Too Wild Orchids sex podcast to the Stop Signs are Optional show! The ladies discuss what it is like to be the worst friends ever and how that makes them the best friends ever. Tune in to hear about what makes a great friendship for them and how that differs from the norm. Per usual, things tend to get a little bit more personal and the topic of romantic relationships evolves. Remember you can now call or text your questions, thoughts, and ideas to 407-434-0493. We want to tell your stories and answer your questions on an upcoming show!
Key Moments:
[1:33] Why are Lindsey and Seanlai the Worst Friends Ever?!
[4:55] The ladies discuss the Worst Friends Ever Bylaws.
[6:47] How are guys already bad friends and how does that compare to women?
[10:24] What is a trigger for Lindsey in friendships?
[12:15] Lindsey is in the process of learning how to communicate better with others. Seanlai works through communication techniques with her [15:43] Seanlai shares a story about a "good friend" of hers and how to establish boundaries.
[16:25] Establishing bylaws for yourself; becoming your own "worst friend."
[19:25] Insecurities with self and how that affects relationships.
[22:59] Wayne Dyer and unconditional love.
[24:27] Lindsey questions mistaking friendships for romantic relationships. Things turn consensually non monogamous.
[30:45] Lindsey is a recovering co-dependent and how does this affect her current relationships and her all or nothing personality?
[35:27] Lindsey's pansexual attractions astonish Seanlai.
[39:58] Lindsey discusses being intentional about who she holds space for and walking away from relationships to allow space for others.
[44:53] Too Wild Orchids has a dick wall of shame and Seanlai tells listeners how to send those in.
Worst Friend Ever Bylaws:
-Membership into the WFE is very organized and exclusive. Needy friendships are not what we do. We are not for everyone and that’s OK.
-Friendships have to be easy, authentic, simple, and with absolutely NO pressure.
-The members agree that we will not always call each other back.
-If we are working, we will not answer the phone.
-We will lose track of time and be late. We expect it.
-Members know Time is an ‘ish’ : eight-ish-seven-ish... we’ll get there.
-Three phone calls in a row means it is an emergency and we will answer the phone.
-If you are stranded on the side of the road at 2 AM we are the ones to call. We will come get you and bring coffee, and once we know you’re fine, we will probably make gentle fun of you.
-Your success is our success and we will celebrate your wins as though they were our own.
-If your partner is dumb enough to break your heart text the word pineapple and we’ll help you hide the body.
-But don’t expect us to respond to every text message or phone call. That’s not who we are and definitely not what we do.
Relevant Links:
Too Wild Orchids Podcast - new episode every Thursday: https://toowildorchids.com/
Dick Wall of Shame: 561-200-3330
That's Not What I Meant!: https://amzn.to/36WHXTC
We want to tell your stories and answer your questions on an upcoming show!
Follow: www.instagram.com/stopsignsareoptional
Contact: Call/text us at 407-434-0493
Voice Message: https://anchor.fm/ssao/message
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By Lindsey and AllieLindsey welcomes Seanlai from the Too Wild Orchids sex podcast to the Stop Signs are Optional show! The ladies discuss what it is like to be the worst friends ever and how that makes them the best friends ever. Tune in to hear about what makes a great friendship for them and how that differs from the norm. Per usual, things tend to get a little bit more personal and the topic of romantic relationships evolves. Remember you can now call or text your questions, thoughts, and ideas to 407-434-0493. We want to tell your stories and answer your questions on an upcoming show!
Key Moments:
[1:33] Why are Lindsey and Seanlai the Worst Friends Ever?!
[4:55] The ladies discuss the Worst Friends Ever Bylaws.
[6:47] How are guys already bad friends and how does that compare to women?
[10:24] What is a trigger for Lindsey in friendships?
[12:15] Lindsey is in the process of learning how to communicate better with others. Seanlai works through communication techniques with her [15:43] Seanlai shares a story about a "good friend" of hers and how to establish boundaries.
[16:25] Establishing bylaws for yourself; becoming your own "worst friend."
[19:25] Insecurities with self and how that affects relationships.
[22:59] Wayne Dyer and unconditional love.
[24:27] Lindsey questions mistaking friendships for romantic relationships. Things turn consensually non monogamous.
[30:45] Lindsey is a recovering co-dependent and how does this affect her current relationships and her all or nothing personality?
[35:27] Lindsey's pansexual attractions astonish Seanlai.
[39:58] Lindsey discusses being intentional about who she holds space for and walking away from relationships to allow space for others.
[44:53] Too Wild Orchids has a dick wall of shame and Seanlai tells listeners how to send those in.
Worst Friend Ever Bylaws:
-Membership into the WFE is very organized and exclusive. Needy friendships are not what we do. We are not for everyone and that’s OK.
-Friendships have to be easy, authentic, simple, and with absolutely NO pressure.
-The members agree that we will not always call each other back.
-If we are working, we will not answer the phone.
-We will lose track of time and be late. We expect it.
-Members know Time is an ‘ish’ : eight-ish-seven-ish... we’ll get there.
-Three phone calls in a row means it is an emergency and we will answer the phone.
-If you are stranded on the side of the road at 2 AM we are the ones to call. We will come get you and bring coffee, and once we know you’re fine, we will probably make gentle fun of you.
-Your success is our success and we will celebrate your wins as though they were our own.
-If your partner is dumb enough to break your heart text the word pineapple and we’ll help you hide the body.
-But don’t expect us to respond to every text message or phone call. That’s not who we are and definitely not what we do.
Relevant Links:
Too Wild Orchids Podcast - new episode every Thursday: https://toowildorchids.com/
Dick Wall of Shame: 561-200-3330
That's Not What I Meant!: https://amzn.to/36WHXTC
We want to tell your stories and answer your questions on an upcoming show!
Follow: www.instagram.com/stopsignsareoptional
Contact: Call/text us at 407-434-0493
Voice Message: https://anchor.fm/ssao/message
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Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ssao/message
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ssao/support